What does this mean? How do i do it? I need examples and success stories not disagreement or negativity. Thanks.
2006-12-13 08:43:33 · 4 answers · asked by huggskisses20001 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
so often we live life to please everyone else and do not know who we are as individuals. I recommend reading some books by Dorthy Virtue on angels and how they can assist us to become aware of our higher selves and Caroline Myss and how and why we are here and the effects of society , prime caregivers and such people affect our choices in life. She also give great advice on how to create personal bounderies which we all need.
you asked for and example: the only person I can do this for is me. I used to be a major pot head and severe drinking problem. I was a major sl*t if you want to call me that, being male I do not know the term. But hundreds of women anyway. I was so lost and looking for approval and love I did everything to hide from myself and my past. Then I was run over by a 5 ton tractor on pavement and did a push up as it drove over my entire body then it came down on my head and I had a near death experience. I will spare most of the details. however I also had a life reveiw. EVERYTHING I EVER DID I relived from the other persons perspective and I felt all they felt as I did what what ever it was I did. EVERY SINGLE WORD, THOUGHT AND ACTION was relived by me feeling their pain. Then I felt all the loving things I did to others. This includes all people animals and plants. I do not suggest you have a NDE, do seek out The Truth. Not church as this is a mind washing controlling environment based on a fear full god. The True Creator is unconditiomally loving. All is within you. Seek you spirit by finding love, forgivness and gratitude for you and all of you life. Live your life with purpose, what is your passion, live with integerity. Love living YOUR life. Be true to you.
I beleive the books also come in tape or cd form if you are not into reading. Keep a journal of your of your dreams and daily life as the baby steps are deceiving of the actual healing you are manifesting by going within. Follow you heart, listen to your intuition and take what you need and leave the rest. May you have a great life filled with passion and integerity !
2006-12-13 17:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably meant find yourself as in find out what you like and dislike, what you really believe in, what's important to you, what you want out of life, what you want out of other people and you will not accept from others. Was the person who told you this your significant other? Did they believe that you had no beliefs of your own or just went along with whatever they did, said or wanted? Maybe they want you to be your own person and not depend on them so much.
2006-12-13 09:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What they mean is that you need to find what motivates you and what your goals are. Maybe the view you as adrift in life with no apparent direction or course you are following. If you have no aspirations or goals right now you are trying to accomplish, then they may be right.
2006-12-13 11:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the term " finding oneself" is used quite readily by many people that usually don't have any idea what they are talking about. If you look in the mirror after a shower you will find yourself very wet. this term is used very loosely by people, and I don't feel it really means any sepcific thing.
2006-12-13 10:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by thms_sandstrom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋