This why, I hate males , I am a male ..I only can communicate well, with females , Am i weird or what's wrong ?
2006-12-13 08:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not weird at all. Its hard to get over someone being cruel to you...but keep in mind there are some nice guys out there I'm sure you could be pals with. Besides, guys don't do well with communication anyway. They are more fact based. You could hang out with some fellas that just enjoy some of the same activities as you, and you don't have to talk a whole lot about anything but the activity. Then you can save the deeper talking for your female friends (no offense fellas I just don't know too many guys that enjoy a deep conversation with a friend)
2006-12-13 08:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you are weird. You have had some unfortunate circumstances. I am female and got made fun of by girls when I was younger. I have very few friends now that are female. I tend to get along better with men. I find them kinder and less flakey. I think my perception is from my experiences through highschool. My Dad is very close to me as well as my Mom... so I do have a love for my Mother, I just find it hard to make friends with other females that may or may not judge me. I think it IS easier to get along with the opposite sex. I do not long for female bonding ever. So for you to not long for male bonding seems fine to me. I do not feel like I am missing anything because I have my sister, mother, and sister-in-law to "bond" with, but I would still rather hang out with my brother and my Dad. I am by no means masculine either. I am pretty and I love girly things I just feel more accepted by males. I hope you do not let this bother you. As long as you have good relationships with those you care about, even if they are all female, you should not give a second thought to this. I hope you find love and happiness...and you should have a very good marriage someday. My husband seems to get along well with women too. He understands them and is very sensitive to them even though he loves sports and manly things. I think this is due to the fact that he has 3 sisters and 0 brothers. If you have trouble even being around males or working with them...I would hope that you would know that not all men are mean, because my husband has a kind heart, which I am sure you do too. I hope this helps:)
2006-12-13 17:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Drea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's funny. you may feel that you're inferior to the other men out there. believe it or not, bullying does damage someone psychologically. I think you need to accept that that was when you were younger. Perhaps it's time to..well..you know..grow up and realize that life isn't about judging someone. As for your father, that may be another issue. because he was never there, it makes it harder for you to open up to guys or let alone trust any men to be your friend. but that's okay because females make good friends too. I don't think you hate men, maybe you just need to take step back and see that there are people(men) out there who may think you'd be a great friend. Don't be afraid to make guy friends. Not all of them are like your father or like those who picked on u.
2006-12-13 16:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel this way now about the male species whatever happened is in the past, you should be a strong person and don't let it get to you anymore.
2006-12-13 16:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I dont think you are weird I dont really communicate well with felmales. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-13 16:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit strange yes!
2006-12-13 16:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jaming 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ITS NOT WIERD IT JUST MEANS YOU HAVE A SENSITIVE HEART...DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT OPINIONS...BUT I THINK IT IS JUST FINE...
2006-12-13 16:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋