probably going to leave any way. She never appreciated anything. She doesn't want sex. Is it better to spend that money on Christmas presents for the kids. She said CZ are better than diamonds. what should I do take it back and buy the kids presents.She is leaving anyway and she doesn't give a damn about me. Just what she can get out of me child support and extras. She will make more money than me but she not going to return any of the money I loaned her. or even help like I helped her
2006-12-13 08:22:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't give her anything. Perhaps buy some more presents for the kids, but it sounds like you will need the money for later.
2006-12-13 08:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wundt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return the jewelry, get things for the kids and a small gift for her. Don't spend $400 on your ex. She will just see it as a sign that she can use you. At the same time you should try to have a good relationship with her so give her something nice but not to expensive.
2006-12-13 08:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by John G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question. Keep your $400 bucks and spend it on your kids. Your ex-wife, is just that...your EX, and I'm sure that she earned that title for a reason.
If you went through with spending that much money on her, you'd really be kicking yourself for it later. You said it yourself, she doesn't give a da*n about you, so why invest yourself further in something like this when you already know the answer.
Get her something meaningful like a $19.99 sampler set of meats and cheese from Pepperidge Farms. Save the rest for some other more deserving lady in your life.
2006-12-13 08:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by somewherein72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it back and put it away some where but not in the bank. She will be entitled to part of if and you will need it for the layer.She might not have a chose to give you the money back. If you can get her to admit that she owes you the money in front of some one you have a good chance to get it back. /why would you want to get her some thing worth so much if you know she isn't going to stay. To me it sounds like she really don't want it any way, I don't know of any any that wouldn't want a demand.
2006-12-13 08:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut your loses. That lady is not interested in rekindling a relationship with you. Take the jewelry back, get your kids something nice for Christmas. Move on and let go!! Oh yeah and take care of your kids no matter what she does or says.
2006-12-13 08:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not spend it on her. Take the gift back and use some of the money to get your kids gifts for their Christmas. Get your self something nice and put the rest in the bank, you may need it later to cover child support, ect.
2006-12-13 08:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a tad bit bitter and probably with good reason. I don't think you should spend much money on her, maybe just a small token gift in the spirit of the season. You should spend the extra cash on something worthwhile for the kids.
2006-12-13 08:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Janine E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take the jewelry back. Second, get some nice things for your kids and spend time with them. Third, move on. She isn't interested in you anymore and you can't let her walk all over you. From the sounds of it, if you give her an inch she'll take ten yards
2006-12-13 08:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Faedra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no-brainer. Take the jewelry back. Spend half the money on the kids, and put the rest back in the bank.
2006-12-13 08:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always better to do for the kids. If she's not going to be with you why spend the money on her. Take care of your kids for Christmas. Forget her!!
2006-12-13 08:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋