In the last few months I've been falling for this guy in my same class. We laugh together during the lessons and and whatever he says makes me laugh(which doesn't happen that easily.) The fact is that he speaks to me during our lessons and when he sees me outside the lessons he just smiles and continues talking to his friends.and a few days ago he said that he doesn't want any serious relationships and..another thing is that my other friend keeps flirting with him and he seems to like it altough he doesn't flirt back...what the hell should I do??
2006-12-13 08:14:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know excatly what your going through because i am going through the same thing. you see i really like my best friend and well the only thing keeping us apart is that he doesnt want a serious relationship. he just wants to stay friends and for right now that is agreeable. but it kind of hurts. what you can do is keep laughing with him. dont make it look like you like him more than a friend because you dont want to put yourself in a situation that will get you hurt in the end. since he wants to just be friends then dont push him too hard. dont flirt with him as hard to make him like you better. and if its bothering you that you friend is flirting with him and he doesnt flirt back then you should talk to your friend. tell her that you really care about him and that it is botherng you the way she keeps flirting with him. that she and him can be friends but that you have feelings for him. be honest with her. and then when the time is right and when you are ready then you can express how you feel about your friend. good luck and i hope everything works out.
2006-12-13 08:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy says that he doesn't want a serious relationship then he probably doesn't. You should let your friend know if you haven't already that the flirting bothers you because you like him... If I were you I would just continue to goof around with him because it seems like you have a good time together, but don't push anything serious. Just see what happens. Good Luck :)
2006-12-13 16:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my best friend and we eventually got married 20 years ago. Friendship with the person you love helps make a marriage last. You may want to wait and see how things progress and plan to let him know how you feel. He may actually feel the same way. Friends make great lovers! Good luck!
2006-12-13 16:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off don't look all desperate and jeaoules because that makes you look bad.
2006-12-13 16:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i absolutely agree with Veda
2006-12-13 16:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP ON TRYING
2006-12-13 16:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋