2006-12-13 07:57:17 · 21 answers · asked by Can d 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
this woman that i dont know said i was nice and hugged me after only knowing me for like 10 minutes....freaked me out, i had to stop eating my lunch and just put me in a bad mood, i really feel like a shower
2006-12-13 08:08:59 · update #1
no. Your a girl. u should not want people to touch u. If ur a guy, then who cares if someone touches u
2006-12-13 07:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it's not. I used to be like that, I have to be very close with the person before I can have them hug me, sometimes even a friend we'll hug me and I'll be disgusted. I think it follows mood, eventually you'll find comfort. I used to hate being hugged or kissed, or touched, now I'm the one issuing the hugs. I hate it when teachers will pat your shoulder, or someone who doesn't know you well trys to touch you though. It's not wrong, it just shows you have to be more comfortable with people before you can have them pressed up close to you, or close enough to breathe on. That's what touch is, you have to be comfortable. It makes sense, and is not wrong at all.
2006-12-13 08:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that information alone is too little to tell if you have something wrong. Also, you would have to take into account differences in cultures and in upbringing. However, if being touched is something that frequently bothers you to the point that you stop eating (or doing whatever you have to do) and feel the urge to shower, it could very possibly have a deeper meaning.
2006-12-13 08:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by John Dull est 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are always valid, feelings are never wrong cause they just are.
I don't like being touched by many people either. I suppose it's about how it affects your life though.
If you get really anxious about it and you think that maybe it's because there are some deeper issues then maybe some sort of therapy around that could help.
2006-12-13 08:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we are have our "personal space" that normally makes us uncomfortable when people enter or cross it. however most humans need touch at some point in their lives - even crave it. it's necessary. if you don't like being touched by anyone i would venture to say you have some issue in your past where perhaps someone crossed your boundries and touched you inappropriately - even molested you and perhaps that is why. if it is a person in particular - well some peple can just make you feel that way. counseling might help you dig deep to find out the root source
2006-12-13 08:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by bbq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends why they are touching you. If it's something perverted or sexual in nature, then you are correct in your feelings... Modern society has gotten so sterilized though that some folks are hypersensitive to human contact. A tap on the shoulder or a touch on the arm while someone is talking to you is quite natural.
2006-12-13 08:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's totally normal. I don't like people I don't know touching me, and sometimes even people I've known for a really long time. It's okay, some people just need "their space" kept a little wider than others.
2006-12-13 08:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok there is nothing wrong with that. Many people are like that alot of people just need their own space and others are afriad of germs and other related concepts. But don't worry that isn't wrong and their is nothing wrong with you either it is just something you don't like and we all have those little things that bother us and make us mad. Don't let it ruin your day it's not worth it. Have a great day...
2006-12-13 08:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite how to answer this, but I will do my best.I think there is nothing wrong with being touched by people as long as people know your wanting to be touched.Also, you may be lacking affection.
2006-12-13 08:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am OK with my wife or kids but I agree I hate other people touching me
I think it is normal I don't touch other people other then a occasional hand shake
2006-12-13 08:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋