My friend Stephanie is like mad at me, and she thinks it's stupid to lke a guy that i've never talked to or don't even know anything about really. but for some reason, i like him. and i am "attracted" to him. i think he asked me out, but i don't really know. and i told her at the end of the day what had happened and she looked at me like she was annoyed and like she was having her mind set to "this is stupid and pointless". i hate that! i don't even tlak about him that much. so is it ok to like someone, (and possibly going out with,) that i have never talked to before?
2006-12-13 07:39:51 · 16 answers · asked by H A N N A H(: 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and i already know from my guy friends that he is really nice and funny.
2006-12-13 07:54:54 · update #1
Hey! I am "attached" 2 a guy I haven't really talked 2 that much and my friends aren't supportive @ all. But I just said if u were really my friends then u would b supportive. Now they understand me fully. And he is going 2 ask me out soon, I am just going to get 2 no him first though.
2006-12-13 09:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by srvmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to someone from across the room is a simple lustful act. No matter how your friend protests, she has probably done it too. The key is to make an actual effort to get to know him or at least find mutual friends and or associates that can fill in some of what you don't know. Be realistic and careful. Try to keep things light until you have gotten some feed back about him. Sure he may be gorgeous, but so was Ted Bundy.
2006-12-13 07:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Msright 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to like the guy but if you plan to go out with him you should know something about him. You should at least have had a conversation with him. Why would'nt you talk with him? What do you mean you "think " he asked you out? Either he did or did'nt. Dont jump the gun about the fantasy of being with him. You may get your feelings hurt.
2006-12-13 07:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by queentasingtao 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have never talked to him, how did he ask you out?
It is fine to be attracted to someone, but it is a good idea to know a little about this person before you go places with him.
2006-12-13 07:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by blessedtexasmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who asked a guy out that she had never talked to
but she knew about him
and he took her to his house and told her his parents where ther
eand they were not
and he tried to 'make a pass'
I tihnk its best the know the guy first
2006-12-13 09:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it is perfectly normal to like someone u don't even no.. everyone goes thru this stage sometime or another.. but i would advise generally to get to no this bloke first by sayin hi and everytime add a wee bit to the conversation and see hoe it goes... good luck
2006-12-13 08:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you crush on actors dont you? have you ever "met" them? ok theres taht part of it. how do you think he "asked you out"? ask him out if you want to "see" him. adults do it all the time. Its called dating. stop being sacred. sounds like your friend might either be jaded, jealous or hav some kind of reason for being the way shes being about this guy. ask her is shes got a reason for not liking this guy...if you like him, ask him out. the worst he can do is say no.... and then youll cry...and then youll move on to your next crush. good luck
2006-12-13 07:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should get to know this guy first.
Because if you're 'attracted' to this guy, you probably just think he's hott. And once you go out with him..you might relize that you don't really like him.
2006-12-13 07:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that. the guy i like now.. i never talked to him, i dont know his name, or any thing about him but i still like him. id try talking to him but hes a jr and im only a freshman. if she has that attitude towards it maybe she really likes that guy too
2006-12-13 08:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend's jealous. she may like him too, or may be going/have gone out with him before.
as for your question, sure. it'll end the suspenseful curiosity!
2006-12-13 08:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by CruelChick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋