2006-12-13 07:30:18 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Prepare yourself. You should have thought about it before taking chances.
2006-12-13 07:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by queenmackerel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be there for her. Noone is really ready when this happens. You are very young so I understand that part. What does she want? Are you going to stay with her or just be a part of the child's life? Are you in college or want to go? How have your parents reacted? If there is help out there for you both, take it. It may take time to get used to the idea of being a father, but it is the most important job you will ever have. The most rewarding as well. Take time to let this all sink in. Make a plan and go for it.
2006-12-13 07:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by lmclear4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try talking to her about it? What are her fews on this? Is she open to abortion or adoption or is she totally against it? You both have to think of this as to how it will affect the both of you in life. Sometimes girls get all excited that they are pregnant when they are younger because it seems exciting but turns out that later on they wished that they waited. You should talk to her and see what she thinks about all this, after all she will be the one going through it. Its not easy but you have to talk about it like mature adults and not kids wanting to play house. If she is going to go through with it and wont let you have a say in it then you should still stand by your child and take care of them emotionally and economically even though she is being like that doesnt give you a reason to not love/care/take responsibilty for the child. If she is open and will talk to you about all this then sit down, talk for a good long time and figure out what the two of you are going to do.
2006-12-13 07:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by lil_cuddlebutt_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that it's time for you to grow up, my 14 year old sister is pregnant and the father of the baby who is 15 is there for her, There's nothing that you can really do about it now it's done and over with, but whatever you do don't abandon your girlfriend because she needs you now more then ever. Good Luck with everything..
2006-12-13 22:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥mizfit♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont judge you. We all make mistakes, and you are young. The only thing I can suggest is to support your girlfriend, dont abandon her and respect whatever decision she makes. For example, if she does not want to do an abortion do not force her to have one because she is the one who will LIVE with the decision for the rest of her life. Why dont you speak to parents? Sure they'll be mad at you but you will be surprised just how much they understand and the support will be endless. If you cant speak to with them for whatever reason, speak to an adult that you can trust (with a level head) like a teacher or a relative of yours, Maybe even your best friend's parents.
Best of luck.
2006-12-13 07:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to deal with it now. You cant tell her to get an abortion or anything, thats wrong. Its partically you're fault, therefore you gotta deal with the consequences. Honestly, life are going to throw things at you, and some of those things arent always wanted or welcomed. But this baby is gonna want his/her father, you cant give up on it. You should have been careful. And I bet once this little bundle of joy comes, you're going to think differently. Its a life you're dealing with, so it would be selfish to ignore the situation.
2006-12-13 07:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this life, 10% of what happens can not be changed or stopped, but 90% is the attitude that you give to situations. if you acted as a grown up, act like one being responsible and respectful to your sitations...you need to make sure that you help your girlfriend with this situation. you don't have to marry her, just talk to your parents and if you decide so, stay with the baby but don't kill him. he is a person since the very first second of conception. a lot of people would adopt this baby. or just give it a try... time passes so fast and this baby will soon grow up and take care of himself.
2006-12-13 07:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by gleal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready fast because now you don't have a choice in the matter!
Oh, and try thinking before acting next time cause you know that whole "look before you leap" thing is not just a cool saying.
2006-12-13 07:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not being childish about sex.
You knew what you were doing. Now you deal with this like an adult. It doesn't matter if you're ready or not; if you weren't ready, you should have been smarter about it.
You're scared now, but once you see that baby, you'll forget it all. Work hard, support your family.
2006-12-13 10:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! LOL! No, seriously if your not ready then your a lot smarter than you appeared to be by getting yourself into this situation. You have a lot of factors to weigh in my friend. how serious is the relationship if one? Would the other person be willing to terminate the pregnancy?
2006-12-13 07:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by pixman43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too late for that you should have thought about that before you did that now you are gonna have to step up and be a man dont be a dead beat daddy and make your kid a statistic,disappear and when the kid makes it for himself jump and hollar thats my son boy is that gonna be a disappoint ment for you when he rejects you. Think about this and know that this is only one do what it takes to make sure it is not two or three Okay!!
2006-12-13 07:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋