gay guys seem way happier ; and yes i am hetero guy ; oh and i have both lesbian and homos in the extended family so i am not being a jerk here people.
2006-12-13 07:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by jethro 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
lesbians want to get it through your head that they dont want to turn you on, on tv lesbians have sex in front of guys, and that just isnt that true in the real world, so when you meet lesbians, you should understand you will never see them do anything sexual
2006-12-13 07:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people put that down to the 'butch' dike stereotype. Like every stereotype there is a truth in it, but it by no means represents the majority. I guess if you ever got to talk to those 'kind' of people they would give all kinds of reasons as to why they the way they. The simple point is, if you really are secure about who you are, you don't need an attitude. Rudeness, ignorance, in anyone isn't smart it jjust shows you up as being an idiot. People like that used to bother me when I first went on the 'scene' as I used to find it a little threatening and despite the aggression I was getting I didn't want to be agressive back, that's not my way. However over time I have gotten used to it and learned to avoid them. After all there's alot of things in life you might not like, but hey just leave it. It's not like having a stand up argument with them is going to help!
Just for the record, there's plenty of insecure gay men, but they just go about it in a different way and trust me they can be just as annoying!
2006-12-13 15:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u being "confronted" by lesbians? Are u provoking them in anyway? Maybe u have just encountered the wrong women on the wrong day. Im a lesbian and the only time i confront anyone is when they do me wrong. i dont just walk around with an attitude for no apparent reason.
2006-12-13 15:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a lesbian and I don't have a bad attitude. Well, not unless someone attacks me. Then I can get pretty agro. But generally, I'm a nice friendly person, and so are most of my lesbian friends.
Lesbians have no more "attitude" than straight women.
2006-12-13 15:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Saeth 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive experienced this before. But it seems in those situations once they get to know you it can go either way. To clarify I dont always get attitude but I do know what your talking about. I think sometimes they are just trying to make the point that they arent attracted to you, or they just hate all dudes.
2006-12-13 15:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be sending out a vibe that because of your ease with their sexuality they may be taking a flirting with them and they don't like it.
I think its great that you are so at ease with the gays but try to pull back on your interest with the ladies and see what comes of it, it may surprise you that they come to you for conversation next time around.
2006-12-13 15:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the lesbians I know are cool
2006-12-13 15:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem that somehow you may make them defensive, even if it's unintentional? I guess by attitude you mean "Rosie O'Donnell type syndrone?
2006-12-13 15:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they're trying to defend themselves even if what they're doing is unnatural and obscene.
2006-12-13 15:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋