how can i find a person who would take care of me?
2006-12-13 07:05:43 · 7 answers · asked by Jools 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If by take "care of you" you mean take care of emotionally, as most people seem to have interpreted, then read all their answers. But I suspect that you really mean take care of you sexually. And if that's the case there are a number of websites you can register on that help people come together for that purpose. Just be careful. Not everyone online is what they appear to be.
2006-12-13 08:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by steve l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing is don't get hung up on a definiton 'gay', 'straight', 'bi' whatever you are still a person, an individual. You stand or fall by who you are without prejudices of others or convenient definitons would dictate! I'll use myself as an example - I don't feel the need to wear my sexuality like some kind of banner. I am who I am. If someone asks me a question I'll give an honest answer, but I have never truly chosen to define my sexuality, because otherwise instantly assumptions and prejudices come my way. I am astute enough to know when the attraction between myself and someone else is apparent and see where things go from there.
The simple answer is know yourself and be proud of that and honest with others about yourself, then you'll be fine. Don't give yourself timescales or deadlines. Just enjoy who you are and others will soon enough tag along for the ride!!!
2006-12-13 07:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, hun, I understand what you're going through. I've tried every trick in the book to get a partner, but it seems some people have to wait for it.
2006-12-13 07:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I assume you can take care of yourself and then love yourself. It is only when you love yourself that you can truly love another. You will find someone someday to love you for you and vice versa. Love is not always the easiest of roads. I am not sure of what your needs are, however, you cannot be that difficult I am sure. :)
2006-12-13 07:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you must learn how to give and take... if you want somebody to take care of you. you must take good care of them too...your family and friends are always there for you... no need to find
2006-12-13 07:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by niknak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww. . don't worry, that person will come around one day. Just don't look for them. It will happen when its suppose to.
2006-12-13 07:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i here it is harder being bi than gay.. mixed emotions mixed feelings i assume that is true
2006-12-13 07:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by matthewkeithsmart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋