dance partners.., it's getting awkward.. what do i do?
2006-12-13 06:37:59 · 26 answers · asked by Rico Suave 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Brokeback Disco?
2006-12-13 06:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You had better come out in the open with it.
If you don't you are liable to lose both of them.
You should bring it up to the guy first and then ask her while you guys are dancing if she would like to sleep with you and then tell her you already talked about it with him.... Then have a threesome... Perhaps his girlfriend will be into it...
2006-12-13 14:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by I am Crystal S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you should be up front and honest with her if you really care about her.How do you think she will feel if she finds out from someone else that her boyfriend and his best friend have been deceiving her in the worst possible way.
As you well know these things have a way of coming out in the open one way or another.
2006-12-13 14:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have some self worth and some respect and leave him alone. If he wants to be a jacka.ss by cheating on his girlfriend & being on the down low (which im sure he is) he can do so, but u dont have to be down in the gutter with him. That is rude. I hate when bisexual men do that crap. It gives the gay community such a horrible name.
2006-12-13 14:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay.
you talk to yor best friend.. the guy.
and
you tell him how your feeling.
and
how its getting akward being around her.
and
tell him that you think you should tell her or something to make things feel a little better.
or actually.
tell him what you think will make it better.
if you best friend really cares then yall should be able to figure out something to make everything better.
but
i would hurry and do it fast before anyone else finds out or something like that.
kk?
well.
i hope i helped.
good luck!
:]]
2006-12-13 14:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to come forward and tell her that he is cheating. But since he more than likely won't, YOU need to tell her what is going on. You 3 don't want any diseases do you? Just come clean with it. And get ready for some hurt feelings from someone.....
2006-12-14 03:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Suga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hott. Like really.
Your friend may be bi, but I'm not sure. Try talking to him, but go slowly. THATS THE KEY FACTOR! If you go up to his girlfriend and be like "OMFG we did it!" then s*it will happen.
The same thing is happening with me. Except a little different. I'm talking to this guy who thinks im incredibly hott, and he happens to be bi. HOWEVER, he has a girlfriend. So im like "ew gross girls!"
good luck!
2006-12-13 15:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Greg H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either keep the guy and tell him to dump the girl or get out of the situation.. obviously you are gay and your not wanting to have a 3way so thats your choices
just don't let him totally break her heart
2006-12-13 15:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by matthewkeithsmart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess if you don't want to her to find out just continue to act normal.. If you don't want her to find out anything.. Have you tought about telling your friend to get 2ther as a serious realtionship so no one will get hurt..Good luck ..
2006-12-13 14:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you got a tangled web of a mess. Better tell the guy first see what he says.
2006-12-13 16:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋