i came home from work early today and thought that my son would still be at college, i went into my house put down my bags and went to go and sit down in the lounge. i went in and saw my son who is going on 17 years old lay on the floor naked masturbating, i was shocked completely froze, he saw me and imediately got up and ran up to him room, just as he was ejaculating, we havent spoke yet but i noticed in my froze state that his penis looks very small for his age, you may think im stupid but i think its quite serious, it could have only been 3 inches erect which i thought was small, is it? also his balls dont look normal size either, i dont know if their are any other mothers out there who have had similar accidental problems like mine,but i dont know what to do about it?i will talk to him about the masturbating in the lounge but im too imbarased about the penis size, what should i do?
2006-12-13 06:31:16 · 31 answers · asked by layla p 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should ask him how he feels about his size without telling him how you feel. Its going to be embarrassing talking to him about the masterbation so you might as well address both issues together. If you dont you will only wonder and worry. Offer him support without censure and if he opens up to you do all you can to help...;
2006-12-13 06:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 8⤋
There are many men out there that were not blessed with large penis or even average size penis. I would say your son is a perfectly healthy teenage boy with a small penis. I would not concern myself with it, it is most likely his "normal" size. Which he most likely already has a complex over. (So don't add insult to injury) As far as the masturbating in the lounge, I would say something about that. Penis size, no.
2006-12-13 06:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing that can be done about his penis size, so I wouldn't even bother to mention it. Not all men are average. Some are huge and others really small. It doesn't affect their physical health.
I would simply keep the conversation on the topic of masterbation and tell him to only do that in his room or the bathroom. Not the public areas in the house.
2006-12-13 06:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This shouldn't concern you at all and you should never bring this subject to his attention as you will tarnish his manhood. Even the masturbation, aren't you embarrassed to discuss this with your son? His penis might not be that small to arouse attention, but this has aroused your attention instead due to the fact that you being female always appreciate something big. I believe at his age you are not to ridicule him by discussing such issues with your son, because to me, he is just a normal kid. So stop freaking out !
2006-12-13 06:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by marizani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very serious problem. Having a penis that small is extremely detrimental to both his confidence and his ability to actually have sex (if any woman would have him). You need to discuss with him the possible treatments or solutions to this problem, he may be too ashamed to seek help on his own but if you urge him to it might break through that barrier. I know it is going to be difficult for both of you but this needs to be addressed and you may be the only person who cares enough about him (and knows about his problem) to help him. You really need to get involved with this, he may be 17 (or older at this point) but you are still his mother and you still need to help him with certain things, this being one of them.
2014-08-02 13:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Shamus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to lift wait upto 5 kg with his pennis everyday.I am kidding nothing you can do for pennis size.you may see many sellers promoses that they can increase by certain techniques in the internet but all that are bull ****.The actual thing is the size doesnt matter.so dont worry about that and forget abt this incident talk to your son normally as you are b4.dont make him to think that he was guilty.that will really make the problem.ok.takecare.
2006-12-14 01:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by redmagic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try knocking next time. Have you never heard of "morning wood"? Kind of a natural thing. Most guys wake up with an erection every morning. But really, why do you still wash & put away your 18 year old's clothes?
2016-05-23 19:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is a mother concerned with her young "man" son's genitals. He will deal with it along with his future partner. Size isn't everything.
2017-03-02 12:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Posting all about it on the internet is obviously the best possible course of action. Or is this some attempt at humour? Either way, I think you should just forget it.
Ta ta.
2006-12-13 06:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by internits 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have anything better to worry about? As an adult you should know that size doesn't matter. Stop perpetuating the myth that it does and leave your poor son alone.
2006-12-13 08:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you embarassed about the size of his penis? I'm sure he'd be well embarassed if he knew you were talking about him like this.Tell him you don't want him masturbating in the lounge and leave it at that,poor lad!
2006-12-13 06:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by Lor24 5 · 10⤊ 0⤋