2006-12-13 05:55:34 · 28 answers · asked by mikey b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its easier & quicker for the man to have the snip
2006-12-13 05:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is not even a question here. You get the "snip". Her going in for a hysterectomy is a major in-patient operation which can also have major side effects on her hormone levels, which can change a person's personality, weight and other things drastically. A vasectomy is out-patient surgery where you feel like you've been kicked down there for about a day, and then it's over. It doesn't affect anything else to do with you. It does not "neuter" you or make you have a lower sex drive or have any side effects. Don't worry- get the vasectomy, you'll be just fine. :)
2006-12-13 14:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have a strong lasting marriage one of you have to do some think,the snip is a very easy procedure and you would not feel the loss of your man hood,but your wife having the op is final a woman would feel incomplete been able to bear children is in there nature take it away,and they feel useless,had the snip,been there got the T shirt and feel fine,good snipping
2006-12-13 14:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your wife have decided that 3 kids is enough and that you have stable lasting relationship. Then BE a man and go get snipped don't leave the contraception to your wife.. It will change your life and remove the worries of any further unwanted pregnancies.
2006-12-14 03:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 kids are plenty if you want more adopt. It's quicker for the man to have the snip. Recovery is short. Now for the woman to have it done it's about a 6 week recovery. Through my own personal experience years ago my husband had it done and later on due to medical problems I too had to have surgery. I would consult with a doctor and check medical histories for your wife to see if cervical cancer or several other problems could run in her family. If the problems have a potential of arising you may want to go another direction.
2006-12-13 14:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have the snip. She has allready gave birth to three kids. Really though, it is a major operation for the women and very simple procedure for the man. Good Luck
2006-12-13 14:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by kimmy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did a great bit of research on this same issue and came to this conclusion. It's less invasive and much more affordable to have yourself snipped. There are a great deal more medical issues that come from her having her tubes tied, etc. Your recovery will be much faster and it is possible to have the procedure reversed should you decide you want to have more children.
I vote for the vasectomy!
2006-12-13 14:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have the snip, i did no problems, but if your wife has it,then maybe she might go into early menopause or all her hormones become unbalanced,not a very nice thing to experience. Slight discomfort for a couple of weeks but then freedom from worry
2006-12-17 12:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by brian g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the snip, it hurts for a few days but it makes it easier to play away!
2006-12-17 13:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she went thru the nine months of carrying these children , how hard could it be for you to have a procedure that you dont not get put under for, a procedure that takes alot less than 9 months and lord knows how long the labor was. And one that is much cheaper and if by chance wanted another child is reversible. :}
2006-12-13 14:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tami B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋