i am in a mess.
2006-12-13 05:50:51 · 17 answers · asked by gayatri n 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The best option is to marry now and then tell your would be that you are pregnant provided your would be and you are ready for the marriage and this beautiful baby. Have you not heard of the olden times when Kunti delivered Karna and then married Pandu (father of the Pandavas). Mary was also pregnant with Jesus before she married Joseph. Why not you? Babies are god's beautiful creation and you are most lucky to be pregnant . Do not worry about the society.If you are confident that your would be would support you in your decision go ahead. Best of luck in your life.
2006-12-13 19:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you meant that you're wedding's not for another 2yrs, consider yourself blessed! You're having a baby, the love of your life is the father, you'll have plenty of time to lose the baby weight before the ceremony and the two of you are going to share the celebration of your love with your amazing little baby on your wedding day. Don't be scared! Don't worry what others may or may not say. It's a blessing, you must allow yourself to feel the joy.
2006-12-13 22:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,I'm not familiar with your customs (I'm from Europe),but in my country,if you are pregnant with your fiancee,you decide together what should be done:have an abortion,or get married really soon! But,to be sure,buy a pregnancy test
2006-12-14 05:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't completely understand your question. But just get married as soon as possible, if the two of you are ready. Really thats why stuff like that should wait till you are married,and there wouldn't be so many "messes".
2006-12-13 13:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by wallsuds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean still 2 years in the marriage? If you are pregnant, you'll just get married sooner.
2006-12-13 13:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well these things happen, so relax, have this beautiful baby and then marry. Try to bring the wedding forward if you can.
2006-12-13 14:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop stressing until you know for sure that you are pregnant. If you are definitely pregnant, tell your finance and see what he thinks. You two need to discuss it.
2006-12-13 14:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're waiting 2 years to get married? Anyway...just let your fiance, unless you want an abortion.
2006-12-13 13:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rwebgirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Claim you are just getting fat. Or elope. Or have the baby then get married when it's two...No....There is really only one answer. Get married now.
2006-12-13 13:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by BellaLuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the baby & keep it or have the baby & give it up for adoption
either way, get some birth control
2006-12-13 13:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Magick Kitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋