i really need a good answer plz i am even scared .
2006-12-13 05:37:49 · 24 answers · asked by gayatri n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just move the wedding up assuming you love this man. If you don't, honey, it is far better to raise a child on your own than suffer for the sake of being with the man who impregnanted you.
2006-12-13 05:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't life full of surprises! I would say move up the wedding date, but first I would like to know how long the two of you have been together at this point. I know many people think that when you become pregnant, you must marry. The fact of the matter is, a new baby adds a lot of stress on a relationship, so if you have not been together for a good period of time, I say wait and marry as planned. Don't rush into marriage because their is a baby on the way now, take your time and evaluate the whole situation. You not only have to plan for the expense of a wedding now, but all the needs of a child.
2006-12-13 13:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept what you have done and take care of your little Blessing the best you can. It may seem like a terrible mistake that this has happened, but it's not. Life is no mistake. It is the first gift of God. You should be happy that God loves you so much to give you such a beautiful, loving, precious, wonderful gift. Your family may be unhappy when they learn that you are pregnant, but when your Blessing arrives there will be a lot of happy people in this world. They can't be mad at you forever, and if they are then that's on them. They would be missing out on such joy that a sweet, beautiful baby brings.
2006-12-13 14:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Christian93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First the fiance probably has some feelings on this. If you feel strongly about being married before children than you could perhaps elope or move up the date. Another popular idea is eloping and having a wedding later. It is whatever makes you comfortable and honestly babies and then marriage are becoming a more normal occurence everyday.
2006-12-13 13:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to the courthouse...make your marriage legal...and still have the "show" wedding when you originally planned.....You'll already be married when your baby is born...
not sure what you have to be scared about.....be happy....having a child is a wonderful experience! Yeah..it hurts...but SOOO worth it when it's over.....
If your already engaged...then you alredy planned to live your life with this man anyway, right? Don't worry...everything will work out just fine! Have fun!!
2006-12-13 13:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap together a quick wedding now (within two months). Simple and easy. Or even justice of the peace.
Take the money you were going to use for your big wedding and use it to raise your baby.
You have already ruined the fairy tale wedding. Don't make a farce out of it by having it in two years anyway.
2006-12-13 13:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get married now and have your baby! WHat differenc will it make...you are PREGNANT. What a celebration. Congratulations and enjoy the little thing. All of the best!
2006-12-13 13:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move the wedding early just because you got pregnant. Weddings aren't suppose to be rushed. Everything happens for a reason, just let it all fall into place.
2006-12-13 13:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Felicia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would have the baby. you are married and have been together for a while. are you concerned with what your husband will say? are you not ready for children yet? i think all women are a little scared too.
2006-12-13 14:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by mel2430 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart/man as john suggested and get married now or if marriage is not in,get DNC done.You can have babbies latter after marriage.
2006-12-13 13:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by jayashree m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋