Possibly from my view we attract based on our maturity and where we are in our 'life's journey'. Searching for a soulmate, I think ,is fear based really and not really a fun way to live to fear that one has lost 'the one' or missed them, etc…
I used to feel scared to breathe. Since I made the wrong choice in a husband. I realized my husband is not my soulmate.
I absolutely trust life in all its totality now. I do not experience fear even in what we could call a very challenging situation, I have become fearless in the past few months...
Fear is a body-emotions response. A fear of one's feelings being hurt, or fear of the body being harmed. When the Soul is Awakened then one knows the truth and is no longer fearful.
I would like to hear your thoughts...now If I get too many insults I will go back the jokes& riddles Q&A...LOL
2006-12-13 05:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by Tabor 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Cleaning the soul of baggage is the first step to find your soulmate when ones own house(soul) is in order then its permissible to let someone else in to visit. if its not then your guests cant see all the beautiful things there. and your to busy trying to hide that awful stain to enjoy their company. i think i got off topic sorry
2006-12-13 07:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Unfrozen Caveman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The "romantic" side of me believes that everyone has someone they are soulmates with; however, they might not always FIND that person. I think most people want to find someone they think they are "meant" to be with. The "realistic, logical" side of me says there is no one right person for someone. There could be several or many right people for someone. I, too, was married and was DEFINITELY not married to my soulmate LOL. I learned a lot about what I DON'T want by being married to him. My marriage changed my views about soulmates, really. I think your theory about fear is a good one. I think the fear of being alone helps keep the soulmate thing going, in many ways.
2006-12-13 05:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actual love is the affection you percentage with your soulmate. The techniques of soulmates arose from Greek mythology. in accordance to the tale, our ancestors once had 2 heads, 4 palms. They did something to offend a god so as that god punished them by splitting them down the middle, ensuing contained in the creation of people. As a punishment, we are condemned to spend our lives searching for the different 0.5, our soulmates.
2016-11-26 01:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soulmate to me...is someone I can tell everything to. EVERYTHING. If I can't tell someone everything because I'm afraid of what they'll think or say, then they're not my soulmate.
Now just because someone is my soulmate doesn't mean that I have to be attracted to them or want to marry them. I have one best friend at this moment and he's my soulmate, but I don't want to be with him because I'm not attracted to him. We share a connection and understand each other but we don't love each other.
Sometimes you don't marry your soulmate. You just know them and they comfort you. I do believe it is possible to have more than one soulmate though, just not at one time.
We only really can deeply connect with one person at a time.
2006-12-13 05:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by tamara_giggles 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We all have multiple soulmates, male and female, young and old, romantic and platonic.
Don't get caught up on the "soulmate" word, though. It doesn't necessarily mean compatible life partner. You need to learn who you really are and what you really want, in and out of relationships before you can successfully commit to another human being, and vice versa.
2006-12-13 05:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the attraction is a chemical thing...sometimes I have just turned around to connect with someone and it was like we both knew what happened. That's as close as it gets I think...people change over time though; I used to have a lot more in common with my wife and she is discovering things now that was new to me 10 years ago, but that attraction thing is still there as strong as ever.
2006-12-13 05:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has a soulmate and thye never change, but sometimes you yourself make it not work out.
A soulmate to me is someone you feel completely comfortable around. Someone you can tell everything and anything to.
You don't have to be in love, just someone you really and truly connect with.
2006-12-13 05:18:12 · answer #7 · answered by X_Mint_X 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, lets start of by exampling fear!. We need fear its a natural survival instinct. It helps us make judgments. We have become a more fearful society, we fear everything!
Soul-mates!!!!!?? Well...., i believe that as we grow and change over the years, so do are soul-mates! At different periods of our life's we need/want different things! The soul-mate of that period is giving us just that.
2006-12-13 05:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if everyone has a soulmate then why is it i am not yet married . i am searching for girl long time ago but couldn't find one and i dont know why ?cause maybe i am fat or broke{no money} so i am having a hard time finding one.
2006-12-13 05:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋