people who don't want kids get pregnant so easy, and people who want them more than anything have a harder time? i don't understand it! just opinions!
2006-12-13 04:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by heaven-sin-t 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well i want kids and i am only 23 on my second one. Both time i did not have trouble at all getting pregnant. I was actually think of being a segregate mother in the long run to help a couple with that problem.
2006-12-13 04:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Q 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
I just lost my son at 21 weeks due to an incompetent cervix in oct. I did everything perfect for my pregnancy.
My friend is preggo and has no means of supporting a child AT ALL. She has the government helping her. I'm not saying this is bad but my situation was the opposite, We own our home and cars and even our own business. She is not married but she is young (19) and her boyfriend is younger (18) She is 19 weeks now and still smoking.
She seen what I went through and is still not "trying" to make things better for this baby even by quitting smoking.
I Wish her the best because no one should go through what I did but I feel like she should try more. She will be the lucky one that gets to have a baby. When mine died and I did everything right.
Life is unfair.
2006-12-13 12:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That part doesn't bother me as much as the fact that irresponsible people have a ton of kids and others who are trying to be financially stable before increasing population and would raise responsible non-welfare dependent children wait so long.
2006-12-13 12:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by math_teacher_02 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess its cause if you want to get pregnant that is all that you are thinking about at the time. for me i got pregnant with my daughter i just got back with my ex husband at the time and we weren't planing on it.
It could be that its not meant to be for you to get pregnant with the person you are with. that happens to so many people that i know and when they get with someone different they end up pregnant
2006-12-13 12:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by prettygothgirl69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who don't want kids usually have years and years of sex with no pregnancy. It just seems like they get pregnant easier!
2006-12-13 12:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great question. I would like to ask God the same thing. My only answer to this until I can ask Him is that He knows best and there is a reason and purpose to everything He does, even when we don't understand.
2006-12-13 12:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. i would like to ask myself the same thing becasue most people who have kids dont deserve them adn the people that do have issues... its doesnt make sense i guess god has a rhyme and reason fo reverything
2006-12-13 12:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by jpiccoch 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mother Nature can be a really *****. That's all I've ever been able to figure out.
2006-12-13 12:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by tabithap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your talking about poor young mothers maybe they have sex more and with different partners just an opinion
2006-12-13 12:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by shelly c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
One of life's little tricks. We want what we can't have.
2006-12-13 12:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by KD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋