2006-12-13 04:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Sex witch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was pissed off at God when that happened to me. I was wondering why he would take my only real true friend at the time. I was 11 and she was 10. She was playing on a log and it rolled over and crushed her to death on the beach. She only lived three houses down from me. I cried alot and thought about the times we spent with each other. I went to her funeral and I got a pin that they made with her picture on it and I wore it around for awhile. When I was a kid I never took pictures of my friends. Now all I have are all these faded memories, as I got older I went picture crazy. I always take pictures of my friends because I dont want to be left with these faded memories I want to be able to look at there picture and be able to remember them clear as day. It took me 7 years before I could visit her grave. I'm 19 now..and I still think about her. Her name was chelsey...and my bestfriend of a few years now is Chelsea. I think I still deal with it from time to time.
2006-12-13 04:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i couldnt imagine the pain you are going through. You cant do anything but continue to live your life. Its so hard to go on because that was the one person you could talk to about anything in the world and knows all of your secrets. but you will you need to grieve cry and tallk to her as if she were still there. you will find another friend that you can share the same stuff with there will always be a place missing in your heart because you shared so much with this person. no one will ever replace her but you have to move on. i'm so sorry i wish i knew what else to say but i dont i cant imagine loosing my best friend it really makes me think about what i would do.
2006-12-13 04:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After your friend dies, you must mourn if you are to love and live wholly again. You cannot heal unless you openly express your grief. Denying your grief, before and after the death, will only make it more confusing and overwhelming. Embrace your grief and heal.
2006-12-14 18:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by littletoot53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i've had one of my best friends die and it hurt me so bad. I went to their funeral and i all the time look back and remember all the things we used to do and all the fun and crazy stuff we have done and everything like that. All you can do is honor them and don't be afraid to let people know you miss that special friend.
2006-12-13 04:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a disaster because you have to be super lucky to find a good friend again in this mean mean world.
2006-12-13 05:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by feelings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wld definitely cry with few of her/his other closer friends for days initially but things goes on...life goes on...the most impt thing after that is not to accompany him in death but to keep him alive through your memory...:)
2006-12-13 04:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sedih 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SO SORRY FOR YOU.KEEP REMEMBERING ALL THE GOOD TIMES YA'LL HAD. IT WILL BE HARD FOR A WHILE. BUT YOU HAVE TO KEEP GOING. HE OR SHE WOULDNT WANT YOU TO BE DEPREESD. TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE.GO TO COUNCILING.
2006-12-13 04:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by bay bay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that , but you go and find a new one
2006-12-13 04:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋