People rarely believe me when I say that I have no friends.
Good friends I used to have all moved far away, immediately after graduation. Some went into the military, others went off to college and ended up getting married, having kids, careers, etc. That's just life. People drift apart.
I don't have any friends at all. I haven't for a long time. I have some acquaintances, but that's as far as it goes. I don't have anyone I can call up and chit chat or hang out with or anything like that. It's very difficult to meet new people.
Why is this so difficult for people to believe? Is it that unusual?
2006-12-13 04:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be quite honest with you, I do believe you. Like you the friends that I did have in school moved away. I didn't have a lot of them to begin with, as I went to seven different schools due to my parents divorce, remarrying and moving around when I was living at home. I am not an outgoing person and now being a stay at home mom for the last year, I really am not meeting any one. I have turned to my family (mainly my mom and one sister in law that doesn't live far away) and those are the people that I talk to and hang out with. I have become more active in my church but still am having difficulties meeting people, especially my age. So I guess that I don't find it hard to believe that you have no one that you consider a friend, as far as it being unusual, I don't know, but you have at least one other person that you know of that is in the same boat you are. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-13 04:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by bluekitty8098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you and its not unsual. My real friends are people who I have known since middle school and I know that one day they are going to move away or I am going to move out of state and I wont have any friends. I think that the reason behind this is it is hard to find a real friend. I also dont think you want to deal with the crap of making a new friend you want someone who already knows all about you. Hell once you get married your wife and kids will be your life and you will get into that swing of things
2006-12-13 04:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you, sh@t happens people move or you move that is what has happened to me you just have to get out there go up to people and maybe dont tell them that you dont have any friends they might start to wonder why, my boyfriend and i move to a different country last month and then he had to go away so i was left by myself but i said f@ck im not going to stay home on a sat so i went out and meet the first person at the bar hung out with a great group of people for one night and never saw them again it was great ,maybe just do that
2006-12-13 04:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u go to you city's community services building and find out what sports, clubs, organizations, activities, voulunteering, events are available. You would be surprised at how many people are wiling to makea new friend.
2006-12-13 04:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by PinkPrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still have them and even though you don't keep in touch and they moved away, they are still your friends deep down inside. Almost all of my friends live in totally different states but i still know that they are there no matter what.
2006-12-13 04:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i beleive you. get out and make some. co workers, church members join a volenteer group.
2006-12-13 04:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋