emotional blackmail?
2006-12-13 04:22:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's not for my own dirty work! :) Someone I know does it to me. I'm trying to teach myself to identify the signs so I quit letting her get me all worked up.
2006-12-13 04:38:06 · update #1
Thanks, Mike M. You've just described my Mother-In-Law! ha ha.
2006-12-13 04:43:35 · update #2
"It's a good thing your father didn't live to see the person you've become, someone who won't even. . . ."
2006-12-13 04:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by amy02 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, have I seen some goodies!
There was this guy who was being divorced by his wife- and to be nice, he was scum. When he had his kids for visits, he would come into their rooms while they were supposed to be sleeping while crying, and tell them how their mother was such an awful person and she didn't love him. He was trying to get the kids to side with him so he could get custody of them.
The girl was quite upset- but she eventually got tired of the tear-jerker acts and of him trying to buy him when he wasn't paying child support. She told him eventually to get lost- though not in those words.
2006-12-13 12:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I love you, I will behave the way I do when I love a person. Your feelings are your responsibly, as my feelings are my responsibility. I cannot "hurt" your feelings.
YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP! You are needy, insecure, and passive aggressive. Until you solve your own issues you will not understand, or be able to give or receive love.
2006-12-13 12:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to use them or are you receiving them? I won't help you commit emotional blackmail, do your own dirty work!!!
2006-12-13 12:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋