whats the best way to tell my parents, and boyfriend that im pregnant.
2006-12-13 04:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just tell them the truth and do not beat around the bush about it.. how old are you? is it going to be a total shock to them? you might try to break it slowly...
2006-12-13 04:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to rip that band-aid right off.
Take a deep breath. It's probably going to be the most difficult conversation you'll ever have. Hopefully, you can start with one of them, and then bring the others into the conversation. Pick the one you think it will be the easiest to talk to, and the go from there. But you're going to have to be very honest with them. Do some searches online today to get information about pregnancy, adoption, abortion, counseling, marriage, college, childcare, all of your options, so you know what you'll be discussing with them, because they'll bring up all of these issues. You're fast-forwarding to adulthood, so you're going to have to have your ducks in a row. See if you can find a counseling or support resource online or over the phone, and get information about services in your area.
Good luck, be brave, and I hope everything ends up OK.
2006-12-13 04:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your comfortable with your boyfriend then just tell him. is he not going to be expecting this? with your parents, if your nervous or something, write them a letter, that's what I do when I'm too nervous to tell someone something. That way you can't change your mind and chicken out about telling them. Leave it in there room on there bed or something.
2006-12-13 04:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that hard to say because we don't know what your relationship is like and if they will be excited/upset/mad/sad, etc...I would suggest telling your boyfriend though before you break the news to your parents. Good luck!
2006-12-13 04:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight talk, no excuses, and ask for guidance going forward. Make them a part of the solution, even though they were part of your problem.
Three ways to deal with the pregnance. If it is acceptable, raise the child If it is unwanted and you have time, abort. If not, give up for adoption.
2006-12-13 04:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i was in this situation i would write them a note telling them everything because i really dont likr to say things like that to someones face! just my opinion though,
2006-12-13 04:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by yungjoc_luvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and tell them. No sense beating around the bush.
You could always wait until you're showing and let them figure it out on their own.
2006-12-13 04:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do it at christmas and just say we'll next year i think i'll be needing new furniture for the nursery. or something like that.
2006-12-13 04:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont
2006-12-13 04:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by badreligionbeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋