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The other day at my local Suntrust branch a woman with one kid (about 10-12) went to cash a check she wrote to herself. Well, she filled out the check wrong and the teller told her to fill out another one. I tell you litterly her world fell apart. She start yelling and using profanity to the point she was kicked out of the branch by the manager. When she left people where like "It takes 20 seconds to fill out a check--what a lazy *****!" One man in his mid-40s or so said this and everyone (including employees) started to laugh. Why do women get emotional about everything? Lazy? Stupid? Need to get a life and stop living off the hubby's money?

2006-12-13 03:40:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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It's in there genetic code. Women have no higharcy of authority. A group of men will automatically find an "Alpha" male in a pack. Just watch, put 10 men in a room with a agenda or question that needs to be solved. Naturally they will bump head until one assumes the stronger/lead role. The rest of the men will respect him as the "Alpha" male. It even works in the jungle, male lions will assume a higharcy of authority.

Now put 10 women in a room, they will be catty, mean, and agressive towards each other. Even if one show a position of authoriy and strenght one will challenge her, no matter how the rest of the women feel. And if there challege in unsucsessful, they will wait til a good moment, and challege again or another female will challege her. They have no natural appreciation from authority.

Now, as for the bak situation, women tend to be more aggressive then men. Especially when inconvenensed. Now if two men are having an altercation the weaker male will be careful about what he says because at any given time the stronger male my just decide to kick his a.s.s. Men know that durring an altercation is could turn violent at any time and we have a healthy fear of that. (Nobody wants to fight but we know it's always an option).

Women on the other hand will say the most offensive and hurtful things they can think of. Naturaly they don't assume it will lead to violence, sometimes it dose but thats the execption, not the rule. Women feel (becuase of society) they can say anything at any time and curse, be hurtful, and nobody will touch them. And more likkely than not, they won't touch anybody either.

So what you end up with is a gender of people that will go off on anbody becuase they don't see real consiquese. That's why women get pissed about everything.

2006-12-13 03:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have no way of knowing what stresses the woman who wrote the check was under. Maybe she needed the money in a hurry for some emergency, or had just received some really bad news, or it could have been just the last straw on a day where everything had gone wrong since she got up that morning.

I won't say that the inconvenience was worthy of bursting into a profane diatribe, but obviously there were other factors at work.

By the way, women aren't the only ones who lose it--I've seen men behave in the same way for what seems even less reason.

2006-12-13 11:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 0 0

God, i wish i was there. There are women that are so ignorant. Females, wow, though i admit i am one, there are very few myself that i can tolerate. Some just don't care about what people see, as long as they think they are all that and more. Could've been bad day with the kid. That time, or sexual frustration. Last, maybe the fact that someone actually took the time and told her that she had to do more work!

2006-12-13 11:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0 0

Daniel,

you never know what the lady was going through until, you've walked in her shoes,

She could have been a single mom and needed some cash,
This one last problem must have sent her over the edge,

I would have felt sorry for her and tried to get her to realx by offering to help her out,

that could have diffused the entire situation.

And its obvious you aren't married or dating, because your views are too selfish, A woman would have to be a saint to tolerate , your self serving point of view,

Godd luck in the future, Meg

2006-12-13 11:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe she was just having a difficult day where she was running 10 min. late for everything and that extra min. would put her even more behind. Maybe she was trying to do something illegal and she was hoping to be in and out quick and be gone with her money and since she made the check wrong now she could take the money she wanted. You understand.

2006-12-13 11:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Help Me! 3 · 1 0

by the way not all women are like that. Most women can fill out a check fine with out freaking out. You probably caught that women on th worng day. women do freak out and get emotional alot because men are too scared to show there emotions. i know that my grandma is very old and she is really sweet but she freaks out about little things like if i didnt clean right. its just the girls are...

2006-12-13 11:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There's no real response to that, there could be many reasons.. She was probably on her monthly menstrual, or had a bad day, got into a fight with hubby. Remember for most women when something goes wrong to us the rest of the day is going to be bad.... We are sensitive and we love drama!!!!

2006-12-13 11:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by ivonne 2 · 0 0

I think we are stressed out. You said she had a kid, maybe she had a bad morning with the kid. Plus, with all the hussle at Christmas time too. Could have been PMS. Many factors.

I think her actions were totally uncalled for. What an influence on a child, don't ya think? I think the bank's actions were appropriate to remove her.

2006-12-13 11:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 1 0

thats a rare case, poor kid has to witness such behavior from his own mother, makes you wander if that is in public what could happen at home in private, the psychological problems must be many on the child and family. the manager should have reported to CPS in addition to throwing her out!!!.

Not all women are like that, just the crazy ones

2006-12-13 11:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0 0

Women are geared differently than men. Some times one little thing can set them off, and other times they don't seem to care. Maybe it was her time of the month, maybe it had been a bad day, maybe she's nuts.... maybe a combination of all three.

2006-12-13 12:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by whathappenedamber 2 · 0 0

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