2006-12-13 03:31:38 · 29 answers · asked by nachomanhulk 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
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2006-12-13 03:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
Why do you think you are a loser? Do you have a sense of not being trascendent in this world? I ask you this because sometimes I have felt the same feelings than you.
Maybe you are a very demanding person to yourself and you are asking to get results in your life that were above from the rest of mankind. Your standards to yourself are very high (people will tell you that you are a damned perfectionist or a perfect vane idiot).
When I am invaded with such a terrible feelings I just remember two things:
a) From 400 millions of spermatozoids in the inception moment, I was the only winner.
b) That some people are born to be the best in their generation while some others not. It does not mean that you have only to accept you destiny as it. If it is in your hands to change that fate, maybe your moment has not arrived yet but try to be patient, keep the marchin' in and it will get you sooner or later.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 04:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by CHESSLARUS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not a loser! Your unique just like everyone else! lol think more positivly about yourself! think about all the good things in your life and if you go round saying your a loser everyone will think you are a loser and you will become a loser
2006-12-14 08:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a roller coaster ride. Right now you are on the downward ride. Soon enough, you'll be on your way up again. And the truth about life is most people are losers, yet they don't tell anybody but only those extremely close to them.
2006-12-13 04:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you think negative you will live negative , try not to dwell on your mistakes ,we all make them. Think about the things that have worked for you and throw that chest out with pride
2006-12-15 04:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you and all of us within humanity simply need to learn to do, is to learn to end suffering. Study the 4 Noble Truths and the Noble Eightfold Path, and practice Mindulness Meditation 10 min. a day. Mindfulness Meditaton increases a persons Cognitive Thinking skills (according to
Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn PhD, and many other doctors. It has been proven !!). It also improves a persons self-esteem, self-confidence, increases one's awareness, helping them perceive everything and situations in life as they really are. Mindfulness Meditation also produces Patience, and Peace. The Noble Eightfold Path and Mindfulness Meditation greatly helps one deal successfully with anxiety, depression, worries, anger, hatred, lonliness, pain, irritations, unforgiveness, relationships, and so.... much more. But mostly the 4 Noble(of excellent character) Truths, The Noble Eightfold Path, and Mindfulness Meditation Puts an end to suffering within one's life. And through LovingKindness Meditations, Loving-kindness is sent to oneself and others in life who need it.
"May you be well. May you be healthy. May you be Happy. May you be free from worry, sadness, and anxieties. May you be friendly. May you be safe. May no harm come to you. May you have Peace of Mind, which produces wholeness and True Happiness."
Be Patient with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Always forgive yourself, in every area of your life, including your mistakes. You are valuable !!
Accept yourself, for there is nothing wrong with you. As you love yourself, you will successfully love others. And remember life is based on having successful relaltionships with others, but first the loving relationship must begin with yourself. The 4 Noble Truths, The Eightfold Path, and "Mindfulness Meditation" taught me totally how to love myself unconditionally and how to love others totally unconditionally as well. I am truly Happy and have an everlasting inner Peace, which I would not trade for anything in the world.
P.S. - You may want to do some searches on Mindfulness Meditation, Metta-Loving-kindness, The 4 Noble Truths, & "The Eightfold Path."
to start with. Do not buy books, on these subjects, not for a while. Because you'll find many excellent sites on the internet. I have over 500 sites and books downloaded for free from the internet on my computer, which have educated me, and helped me tremendously. "You will be fine!"
Simply do a bit of research, investigation, and learn, educate yourself - to understand why there is suffering in the world, and how one can put an end to one's suffering and help others deal successfully with their pain and suffering, and as a result produce True Peace and True Happiness. ! ! !
2006-12-13 04:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no.....u're not a loser, u're just experiencing being a loser.....u feel sad n' wanna make your life better....u try to work hard n' reach your goals because u don't wanna be one forever....u know the bitter taste....it makes your life wonderful n' meanignful because u work hard for it....that's life...good luck!!!
2006-12-13 23:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one thing you enjoy and focus on it until you're good at it. There is nothing better than having an accomplishement to boost self esteem.
2006-12-13 05:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no your not you have the power to do any thing you want
you just fail to realize that so now you are a loser so every clap it up
2006-12-13 05:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by keokeid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because many wedgies in junior high do not a winner make? wheres your get going? has it got up and ran? do you do your math homework on you peanut butter and jelly sandwich?
2006-12-13 10:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by metroactus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do need to lose is all that negative conditioning. There`s lots of good comment coming through this thread, try and take some of it to heart.
2006-12-13 04:09:02 · answer #11 · answered by airhead 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋