am getting married soon.Till now i have not done any sexual activities and i'm waiting to do it after my marriage only.
but i know A-Z knowledge about sex.I and my friend(girl) have watched lots of sex scenes in internet.
My question is how should i behave to my husband after marriage during sex? should i have to behave like a girl who have knowledge abt sex (OR)
should i have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex?
I am asking this question, coz my friend insisted me to behave as a girl, who don't have much knowledge abt sex.coz she told that gents will love if a girl behaves unknowingly abt sex.(i mean A-Z abt sex).
(am indian).
please advice me.
thanks in advance.
2006-12-13 03:02:28 · 15 answers · asked by ColD fIRe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As I know Indian culture, it is important that you keep quit act like an innocent girl. It will give the impression on your husband that you will be faithful to him and that you have done nothing wrong before marriage. I think guys immediately get skeptical over their wives if they have previous experience as what u are saying. I think u better be quit and let ur husband start and end - u better use the experience which u learned from him! that is imporant - keep in mind and dont make ur life a nightmare!!! that is my advise!
Cheers,
2006-12-15 22:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time will not be the best!!!! My sex life has improved over the 10 years of marriage! COMMUNICATION is the most important thing, tell him what you enjoy and ask him to tell you what he enjoys. DON'T do everything you see on the Internet, enjoy each other and figure out what to do to each other with practice and frequency!
As a man speaking, your new husband will not care about how much you know he will enjoy the frequency much more at the beginning! So do it 2 or 3 times a day the first week and at least once a day for the first few months!
2006-12-13 11:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you are with your husband its mean ur with that person who is very close to, who loves to you, who is part of your life, who feels that without u there is nothing for him so u should not hide anything from him even the true loving impression you having during sex with your man. Be peour and feel happy enjoy love with no explaination to others. It should be between you and your man. Not with the other world.
2006-12-20 14:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex for 1st month but after one month u should express ur real sex feeling abt him i know he likes u very much
wish u a very happy n sexy married life
2006-12-14 05:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kaaryeshu Manthri, Karaneshu Daasi,Shayaneshu Vesya, Kshamaya Dharithri..... Be a minister to his needs, be a slave in answering to his needs, be a prostitute while in bed, and be patient as mother earth in all activities.
In bed, there should not be any inhibitions-be utmost co-operative and make him enjoy the sex by enjoying it yourselves. There is no NOs in bedroom!!!!
2006-12-19 09:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but i want to answer this question for you.
I think you should act like a girl who knows nothing about sex. It will probably give him an ego boost to know that you aren't going to compare him to anyone and the sex will be awesome......Play innocent and learn what HE likes too...then show him what you have learned. ;)
How experienced is he? Maybe you can learn together....since this is the man you are about to marry i am sure he knows about your sexual background....or maybe not.
Play innocent......find out what he likes...then blow his mind....hopefully he will return the favor like a real man would.
2006-12-13 11:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by lisamarie_625 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is only one way to make the Wedding Night holy. In the eyes of Muhammed, the bride must cleanse herself in the blood of a virginal lamb, then cook it with mint jelly for her new husband. After the feast, she must dress herself in the traditional Wedding Sack and march to the bed, chanting the Harr Krishna while sipping on gin and juice. Once in bed, you must SUBMIT TO THE WILL OF YOUR HUSBAND, or you will be executed as an infidel. GOOD LUCK!! I hope everything is super.
2006-12-13 11:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Zak R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him be your teacher,Indian male ego's are fragile..if he thought you knew more..it would only create frictions in a relationship which is just begining..let him take the lead and you take over as a good student at a later date...Luck n cheers..Wishing you the very best!!
2006-12-13 14:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Munzir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hei first all the best for ur marriage
u dnt need to prove to ur hubbi tat ur knw a-z in sex coz he may mistake me
so better u keep quite and u dnt initiate anything but dnt stop him if he is doin something jus relax and enjoy
all ways satisify ur husband give ur best so tat he'll feel satisfied and make sure he is
god bless u
2006-12-13 11:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how u act will come natural express your love and if you are a virgin act like a virgin that wants to make love to him badly and like you want him to lead as he should if u r a virgin. be into it not to scared.curious maybe. you dont want him to think you are to fragile but a little at first..then the next time show him alittle more like he did teach you something.
2006-12-13 19:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋