Opposites attract!?

Question

Pisces girl with Gemini guy. We've been together for four years and have been married since April. He's a fab guy and I love him to pieces, but I know that I can be clingy sometimes and he can be indifferent. We've both learned to back off when things get heated because the arguments are like fireworks! Usually if we cool off and don't talk too deeply about things it's okay and we can go on as normal.

It's so weird because we are totally opposite. He can do eight things at once and I can barely do one half the time! He can talk to anyone, anywhere, whereas I have to really know people to engage in a full conversation. I love to watch documentaries and learn things whereas he's happy with a repeated episode of the simpsons. He can't sit still whereas I can happily relax until the cows come home.

Is anyone else in a relationship like this? If so what signs are you both and how are you different?

Answer 1

I am dating a Gemini (I'm a Libra) and at first I thought you were describing my BF!!! Gems HATE clingy.....my BF broke up with every last GF for that reason, and my goodness! I am a clingy Libra!!! That's what Libra does best!

Geminis thrive off of being opposites. They are as indifferent as they come----very much so; almost weirdly indifferent. Geminis are soooo hard to deal with sometimes, but they are truly sweet, endearing, lovable people (as long as they are not angry....I back up so I don't get any Linda Blair pea soup on me).

For me as a Libra, I try to balance his duality. He finds me comforting because I can do that for him. Geminis are sexy and are always great in the bedroom area.

Have fun with your Gem!! Sounds like you guys are a fun couple!

Answer 2

Pisces and Gemini
Pisces is drawn by Gemini's wit and communicativeness, and Gemini is fascinated by Pisces's mystery. But this combination is as unstable as nitroglycerin - and likely to blow up. Pisces can't stand Gemini's fickleness and thoughtlessness. Gemini can't stand Pisces's emotionalism and dreaminess. Insecure Pisces is possessive and clinging, while Gemini wants to have fun and move on. In different ways, each is as shifting and changeable as the other. Pisces lacks direction while Gemini goes off in too many directions. Both need more dominant partners.

For Gemini: Insecurity usually ruins this relationship. This can be an extremely emotional union. Unique, destructive, yet passionate and lustful resulting in hurt and anxiety.

Pisces is emotional and Gemini is thoughtless at times. Gemini dissembles, Pisces won’t deal with reality. Gemini needs freedom Pisces needs adoration. Not good union. Gemini is too playful for sensitive Pisces. Each practices deception in their own way. As Pisces tries to tighten the strings on roving Gemini, Gemini will be looking for a way out.

Gemini Man & Pisces Woman
This match is not a good one. A Gemini boy and a Pisces girl make an unstable combination, because of basic differences in what you need in relationships. He changes his mind from minute to minute, and something he was excited about yesterday might bore him to tears today. You can’t stand this unpredictable side of him and you will be hurt when he loses interest in the things he seemed to like about you before. You are also a very emotional, deep-feeling person and you need to be with someone who is the same. The Gemini boy is intellectual, rather than emotional, and your attempts to get him to express his feelings will freak him out. He’ll run from you when you demand more attention. Overall, it’s a bad match for you.

Even though Gemini boy will be hard pressed to admit it, you're on to him, and as clever as he is in every respect. Pisces girl has enormous powers of persuasion over her Gemini guy, and such power should be used wisely. You have a lot to teach him about heart and soul, and he can show you how to become a better communicator.

Answer 3

Well, I am a Virgo and he is a Pisces---

Here is what I am like---High strung, loud, outgoing, easily angered, not patient, short tempered, always giving and doing, and trying to be the center of attention

Here is what my fiance is like------Calm, laid back, loves the water, good at relaxing and shutting the world out when it is time to calm down, sits back and watches more than getting in the middle, lets things go, and likes people doing things for him

I hear that Virgos and Pisces are a match made in heaven because they are so opposite and me and my fiance truly are.

You can get online and search for horoscope compatibilty and love horoscope compatibility and see what comes up---some of them you have to enter your exact birthdates, birth signs, or your names and it will tell you about yourselves! Be ware of those ones that ask you to pay for the reading or charts tho, there are free ones out there that are just as good! Have fun!

Answer 4

I'm a cancer and she is a taurus... I am logical, easy to please, and unwavering if I think I am right (which I think that alot), relaxed go with the flow, perfer a small group of friends and like to continuously learn about random things.
She is- A never ending strain on my nerves, money and time. But we have been together for 10 years, married for 5. And Im sure she feels the same about me.....but it just works, we love each other

Answer 5

I could write an essay on this, but I won't. For me, I feel like I need someone like me. I am that one in a million, or billion. I have tried opposites. They didn't work. For example, they liked country music, I didn't, they liked country clubs, I didn't, they didn't drink, I did, they didn't smoke, I did, they didn't like to just get out of town for the weekend on a whim, I did. It came down to what do we like together???? How does two entirely different people get along??? That has been my life lesson and it has also been a hindrance for me also, as I am still single..

Answer 6

hmmm
i am a pisces like yourself but i am a male lol, the girl i dated was a taurus and she was way diffrent then myself she was more out going less clingy. it is odd when you meet another person like that cause they bring the best out of you and you do the same cause your not the same so you can learn alot from each other i think thats great you guys are still going strong best off luck you you

Answer 7

I do think that opposites attract. My boo and I are opposite. I am patient. He is not. I wear my feelings on my sleeves and tend to allow people run over me, he does not. I like to go, go, go. He does not. I like to have people over for gatherings. He does not like people at our home. I will watch repeat episodes of the Golden Girls and he hates it, but he will watch it with me (and guess what....once I caught him laughing at Sophia hahahaha). So you see we compliment each other well just as you and your guy. Keep in mind that what he does is what makes him who he is and loving him means loving all of him no matter what flaws he may have.

Answer 8

me and my G/F are as different as they come. the only thing we have in common is that we are both Leos. we hate each others music, she prefers nite club and id rather a quite pub or stay at home. and thats just the tip of it. but we get on so well and have been together 2 years and would do anythig for each other. so yea opposities do attract.

Answer 9

you sound like exactly how i am with my fiance. We're so opposite about the same things you are, but we are also very alike in some things. It's meant for couples to be the opposite because they balance each other out. ex. i save money, my fiance likes to spend money. if i married a fellow saver, i would have a lot of money, but nothing to show for it, and if he married a spender he'd have no money but waaayyy too many things. We balance each other out, and i love it. That's how i know we're meant to be

Answer 10

I think that you should do your best. Stay with him and when things dose get heated then back off and give him his space and everything will remain O.K. If you have any further questions hit me up at ([e-mail]).