how to increase confidence?

Question

i want to know how to incerease confidence and overcome shyness & hesitation. i always feel may be i am wrong then he will going to think about me. and this make me less social person. and makes me self centered. can u please tell me how to increase confidence to face people.

Answer 1

Never ever try to increase it.Don't even think of it.This will just decrease your confidence level.Just keep in mind those who don't do anything never make any mistake.But at the end they end up doing nothing in life.Do you wanna be one of them.If not just give your best shot at everything that comes your way.If you are satisfied with yourself that is more than enough.and remember if don't do anything people may not say that you have done anything wrong,but they surley will say that you have not done anything.Is that a better option to you?
One last thing ,before doing anything ,always try to know what you are doing ,why you are doing and most importantly how will you do it.Just plan everything and your confidence level will grow automatically.

Answer 2

U should be clear in ur view. If u are right then be courageous to express ur view.
People will continue thinking about others.
It doesn't mean that u are not right.
Stop thinking about others and be clear and clever in ur way.Think that whatever u do is from ur point of view. U will then develop good personality.Then automatically shyness will fly away from u.

Answer 3

Fake it till you make it. Think to yourself that you're the hottest, coolest, smartest person in the room.
And sometimes I do a shot or two of vodka before something that will make me nervous... but that's not very orthodox.

Answer 4

Believe in yourself and your abilities. There is always one endearing quality in each person, Remind yourself everyday. If you don't believe in yourself, nobody else will.