Should we proceed to do this so I will be protected or should we not. I have mixed feelings about how this may appear to his family, and to him about my feelings toward him. I love him to death and we have a covenant marriage so divorce is not really easily in the cards for us. What should I do? I have no worries about our marriage presently.
2006-12-13 02:36:55 · 11 answers · asked by question asker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't want independence from my husband.I want to be what I chose to be- married, joined, one. I am happy in our present situation he just thought it was a good idea.
2006-12-13 02:49:14 · update #1
I don't see anything wrong if he want you both to be the owners of the house you will be building all your memories in. Marraige is a life long bond and commitment....he is showing his commitment to you by including you in everything in his life. Congrats sweetie
Jenn
2006-12-13 02:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know more before I spoke up. Are you wife number one? Is tehre a huge age difference? Why does having a covenany marriage make divorce difficult and why mention that?
2006-12-13 05:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it now while he is in sound mind , don't let his health or an accident happen and he is not able to voice his request, get it in writing, you would be surprise at family who put the wife out of a property because the woman's name did not appear on a morgage people act funny when it comes to money,it matters not if the family like you or not,its a matter of money
2006-12-13 03:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's you right and future family protection. Accept the donation and thank your husband's action and don't think of other's reaction about this matter. Go ahead don't be late plan your future. Today it's in your hand tomorrow maybe not.
2006-12-13 02:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea! That way, in case something should happen, you are protected. Do it as soon as possible is my suggestion. Good Luck!!
2006-12-13 03:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he should, you live in that house to as his wife. Stop putting any emphasis on what other people might think or say, it's simply none of their business.
2006-12-13 02:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your name added to the deed so that way if something happens you won't lose out on the house...
2006-12-13 02:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not right to use the word "donate". You are his wife, so that house is also yours. You should have your name add onto the tilte.
2006-12-13 03:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by miss lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy your own house. If you want independance, go & get it
2006-12-13 02:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Scardlebardle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋