i have been linkin with a girl from my university.
we alway end up having sex ,i didn't see her for about a week then i saw her last week n we linked up and having sex. yesterday she told me she was pregnant
wot should i do?
after she told me she just walked away and i didnt see her all day so i couldn't tlk to her.i really like her but we aint a couple so what should i do .its is my kid ,i dont even no if she want to keep the kid or not.i love her but i dont no if she trust me cuz ive been wid 2 other girls y ive been linkin with her, but she just keep taken me back tho
2006-12-13 01:33:03 · 14 answers · asked by redz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sh knows my best mate n he told me that she not keeping the kid cuz where both to young (shes16 im 18).
and she told him i cheat on her to many time n i dont love her, but she wont evan ansewr my calls to find out how i trully feel . but she cant tlk to me cuz she is scared !! wot shall i do about this ?
2006-12-13 01:52:26 · update #1
by the way i did use pritection with the other women just not her
2006-12-13 01:53:38 · update #2
STOP sleeping around and find her n tell her how u feel. be a man and stick by her what ever she decides
2006-12-13 02:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by ***pretty*in*pink*** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you need to go and talk to her. Are you willing to keep the baby if she doesnt want it? Normally I say dont get an abortion but its not your decision. You could always put the baby up for adoption.
And why were you having sex with all these women obviously not protected enough? How much more college do you have to go to graduate? Because this baby is yours and its your responsibility too and you should try to be there for your child whether you are with the mother or not if she keeps it that child is going to need a father and since you made this child it is your responsibility.
2006-12-13 01:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you love her, the child is now your responsibility and you have to buck up and be a man. Try to be supportive as you can with the mother. Wait, is she a minor and you aren't? That is statutory rape. Your in big trouble.
2006-12-13 02:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go talk to her. See if she wants to keep the baby. If you decided to have the baby of give it up for adoption, you should get her some prenatal care. Stand by her. Support her. Be civil. Good luck.
2006-12-13 01:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say talk to her find out what she wants to do and be a man and take care of ur baby! and stop sleeping around!
2006-12-13 02:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do anything cos you already did it.
Only 18 years of child support to go !!
Perhaps You could take spelling lessons also cos that is something that you could teach your child.You need them
2006-12-13 01:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, isn't it obvious that you're going to meet with opposition on here?
Get a paternity test, and be more careful.
2006-12-13 02:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Discuss with her what she wants to do.
Just stay on friendly terms with the girl and tell her you will always be there for your child.
2006-12-13 01:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, its important to find out if the baby is actually yours. if it is then you need to support that child, it doesnt matter if you and the mother do not have a relationship, but you need to have one with your child. good luck
2006-12-13 01:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would highly reccomend you talk to her about it, find out where you stand in all of this, and then go see a doctor together to discuss your options.
i hope you find a solution that works for you all
2006-12-13 01:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by beanie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋