i lost my sister yesterday in a car crash but what can i do to get over it when im so down what going to make me feel better knowing i lost the only sister i had (have any ideas)
2006-12-13 01:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by Ashely 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
I was in this situation before I lost my younger brother although it was not by accident someone actually killed him. It took me a while to get over it but with the help of friends and family you have to hold yourself together and go on with your life. Its always easy for someone else to tell you not to cry or worry but you have to ask yourself how do I stop crying? Believe that your sister is worry-free and in a better place right now than most of us are today. Don't beat yourself up because she's no longer here with you. She's at peace. My sympathy goes out to you and your family.
2006-12-13 01:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by mudda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I lost my brother one of my dad's best friends told me my lost brother would want me to go forward - do well for your sister - she will always be there and maybe she can be a positive force in your life... Don't be afraid to talk to someone about the process you're going through. Talk about it and remember that the view out the front of the windshield is a whole lot better than the rear-view mirror!
2006-12-13 09:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord honey! that's horrible - for one, get off the computer and find someone to hug you! You need human interaction - a shoulder to cry on, ears to hear you scream, etc.. very sorry about your sister. May not help right now, but time will help you get through this. Hang in there, your not alone.
2006-12-13 09:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by The one with a tail... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all
grief won't go away the day after the funeral. you will keep grieving. it's just what humans do when they lose a loved one.
beleive it or not, you will never GET OVER it, but you will be able to put it aside and go on with life.
it just needs time. god bless
2006-12-13 09:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by {hippy}[dreamer] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never get over it....i lost my uncle 8 years ago and it still seems like it happened yesterday...all you can do is wait til you see them again in heaven. you just have to have Faith! Sorry about your lost...I can personally say i know how it feels.
2006-12-13 09:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time
2006-12-13 09:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋