2006-12-13 01:13:51 · 17 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she may have been really hurt by what you did to her.she may just not care any more.
2006-12-13 01:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by janet k 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She cares. And if she doesn't right now, its becuase she is fooling herself into thinking she doesn't, therefor it would appear that she cares not at all. If this is the case, sometime soon she'll begin to remember some of the good times. After 30 years im sure you had some! Right?! After spending that much time with another person you begin to be a part of each other. So if she's not already and hiding it really well, she'll begin to care and maybe even hurt in the future. If she REALLY doesn't care, then she is heartless and you are better off with her out of your life. But im sure she'll start to remember the better times. Im not saying you two will get back together again but maybe you two can be friends again?
2006-12-13 09:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by ryan b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing is she stopped caring a long long time ago and u never got the messages she emitted through-out the years because you were into your own worries and problems forgetting that she was also part of your life to share in those problems. You cut off the communication a long time ago and now that you want to communicate she is not willing to hear it because she got tired of waiting for you, It's too late when a woman makes her mind up you can't change it so accept the heat and look forward to a lonely life ahead of you. You obviously made your bed and you will have to lay in it alone. Good luck to you. And pls don't e-mail me to tell me how it wasn't ur fault, it's never our fault and that's our problem as men we don't fess up to our mistakes so easily.
2006-12-13 09:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a defencive mechanism that allows her to go on with her day and her plans and leave with the least amount of hurt. I'm going through this right now, and by not caring, I can keep control of my emotions better.
2006-12-13 09:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. u din realize what a jerk uve been
2. she cares but circumstances are just too hard for her to cope with.
3. she cant afford to go soft on u
4. her feelings disappeared slowly unconciously and she found a new guy. chances are that she'll ditch this guy too.
i cant ask u to cheer up cuz its gotta hurt real bad. but theres no point trying to get back what uve lost. reality is basically harsh. but uve gotta live it through u dont have a choice. go on a holiday to relax with ur friends. it might help. and maybe its all fate. maybe she was nvr the right one for u but because of the yrs u spent tgt and the times u went through, u thought u loved her. maybe ur destined to meet somebody more suited for u. but basically, id suggest that u pray. (: and ill pray for u too. and all the others who're heartbroken. takecare!
im only 14 btw.
2006-12-13 09:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by imawesome 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because they found someone else who they think are better. That is what the woman who gave birth to me did to my dad who has passed away. It doesn't make sense that a person can just do that without any feelings or consequences.
2006-12-13 09:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lynnemarie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't just up and decide it at the 30 year point. Something was wrong a lot earlier, and one or both members of the marriage didn't acknowledge it.
2006-12-13 09:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh she cares....she cares that she spent 30 years of her life and now that chapter is over .....she cares that she is now free to do what she wants to do with the rest of her life....she cares that she no longer has to put up with whatever she put up with.....She cares...just not about the things you think she should care about or in the way you think she should care...move on with your life...she obviously has...good luck
2006-12-13 09:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT OVERNIGHT! The husband probably has rubbed her the wrong way for 30 years and she has been planning this in her mind for MANY YEARS!
2006-12-13 09:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps she's extremely hurt but doesn't want to show it or maybe she wasn't into the marriage to begin with.
2006-12-13 09:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by missbronzebeauty09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if they were 30 very unhappy years and she wants to forget about them.
2006-12-13 09:17:39 · answer #11 · answered by Kodoku Josei 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋