2006-12-13 01:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing you can't control what she tells her kids. Just be yourself. They will figure it out when they get older.
2006-12-13 01:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like this: "Sweetheart, I only had a threesome consisting of your mom and Grandma" this can sufficiently wonder her. then you actually you ought to assert "only kidding honey, what type of a guy do you imagine i'm....! Harrumph!!! by using how I do have a spouse and a couple of little ones". She'll be so relieved that you probably did no longer have a bone consultation with her mom and grammy, each thing will be forgiven. desire this helped.
2016-10-18 05:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what you are getting into, at least, so you'll have to deal with it. Your guy has to keep his first family provided for, etc. and you will have to be not selfish and handle this politely, if you are going to marry him. The kids and the ex. will be in your life, and you really can't complain about it, because you are getting red flags now...
2006-12-13 01:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing that u really can do... but to tell them the truth and see how that goes. just try ur best. U really can't control what theirr mother tells them so it's not ur fault that they hate u. One day they will realize that thei mother was lying to them and they will come around.
2006-12-13 01:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by bride 2 be in 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru that and just gave it some time. Soon the kids learned more about me and realized I wasn't the wicked ole witch their mother made me out to be. ;o)
2006-12-13 01:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.......when the kids get older they will figure it out themselves!! She's just an angry women!! I don't think the kids really hate you, but for now their allience is with their mom.
2006-12-13 01:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the stepmom with julia roberts. as time progresses they will come to know the real you & love you.
Good Luck
2006-12-13 01:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by missbronzebeauty09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋