i want to die?

Question

i cant take anymore im only 14 and i have lost every one i ever cared about i cant go on anymore i need help but i dont want o live i even planned what to do please help before its to late

Answer 1

Please take your time and read this:

Okey when someone is planning to commit suicide it means he is in pain and there are no coping goods to support it. Just tell your parents how you feel, it is something normal, it untrue only sick people think or even commit suicide. Good I see you are still reading, talk to everyone around you, and I promise everything is going to be ok, it happens to everyone, sometimes it can be just depression which is a bilogical disease and everything around you seems sad.
It's never too late and if you are still planning to do, think about it but do not do it for the moment, delay it for next week. Just don't think of this, cuz life goes on, and sometimes it can get very bad. Best of luck.

Answer 2

OK hon, i do understand the feeling of absolute loneliness. It's very hard to look past the now into the future.It's hard to see how anything can be good when you have no choices and the pain is so strong.People don't understand you.There is nowhere to turn and it will never end.It will, But only if you change it.Take it one day at a time. you might not be able to change the situation but you can change how you react to it.Tell yourself every day this is only temporary good things will come. I am beautiful and I am loved.There is something bigger than this for me out there. Oh honey how i know what you feel.I am close to 30 and i too was 14 a long time ago i was pregnant and homeless.I had no one.It was a long difficult road but i am thankful for it. Take up writing put it all down take long walks often take up cooking go to the library when you are down and read love poems.When you feel bad don't just sit in it.Go do something nice for someone else sounds strange but it works.
You also need to talk to a councilor and a help line to help you through tough times but I know that you can do it.

Answer 3

You need to talk to a trusted adult, like a teacher, a counselor, or a parent. Tell them that you are depressed and suicidal.

Get help. There's so much that life has to offer.

(I was actually in a similar place when I was your age, so I understand how you feel, believe me... I wouldn't have answered this at all if I hadn't had first-hand experience with what you're feeling.)

Tell someone. Tell someone who cares about you, anyone that can help you. It might feel like you're in trouble for a little bit, but that's because the person you tell this to might get scared for a little bit, and your parents will have to be notified if you don't tell them directly. You'll probably end up in a psychiatric unit for a few days, and they'll put you on antidepressants. Psychiatric units are not as bad as TV and movies make them out to be. You'll probably be on a unit with other people your age, who are having problems similar to yours. You could even take some time to think of a lie to tell your friends to explain where you were if you're concerned about people knowing where you went.

Tell someone. I know you don't understand now, I wouldn't have understood if someone had been telling me the things I'm telling you when I was your age, but your life is important. You might not realize it yet, you might not understand it, but you are here for a reason. You are on Earth for a reason. You are important, you are unique, and only you can do what you were put here to do, and without you, the world would be short one very special person. You are not going to realize how precious your life is until you've lived a few more years on Earth and have survived this part of your life. You'll look back and realize just how grateful you are to yourself that you didn't go through with it.

Don't go through with it. There are people who will mourn you. I, who only know you for this one question, would mourn you if you killed yourself, because life is a precious thing, and it's a tragedy to leave the world so young.

Tell someone. You deserve to give yourself the chance to live.

Answer 4

It seems to me that you don't want to and you would like help other wise you wouldn't of posted this on here for help. Your asking what to do well, I will tell you . Just make sure that you listen and do what I am saying other wise it may be to late. First, if your mom or dad is home then tell them what you just said to us and tell her that your not kidding and that you want help because your scared of your feelings that your having right now. If she isn't or if she doesn't take you seriously then pick up the phone and dial 911 and tell the dispatcher that you want to die and that you need help and they will send someone out right away. I will pray for you my dear and your only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you and things will get better I promise you that . Everyone out there has problems some problems are worse than others but to them they are still bad problems. Take a look around you and I am sure that you can find some positive things to live for. Make sure to call 911 now and please let us know how it goes. We are all here for you so , listen to what others tell you and get the help that you need.

Answer 5

Alright, first take a deep breath in. I went through something like this when i was eleven. My parents divorced, my dog died, my horse died, My best friend died. It was a hard year...anyway i think you should hold off on the suicide for a while. Think about the people you still have and how much you care about them. Do you know how much pain you would cause them, that was pretty much the only thing i could think about. (i was about to jump off our roof but just before i did i saw my mom and she was so upset, i just couldnt do that to her) Maybe see a counseler, you dont have to be ashamed to, this is a problem you have and need to get rid of. Talk to your mother,grandparents, guardian anyone that can help you. If you try to kill yourself, i guarantee that just before you do it, and it might already be too late, your gonna realize that you dont wanna die. You wanna stay alive to have grandkids, and spoil them with toys and junk food. You want to have a husband, someone to talk to about anything. You do not wanna die, you know you dont. Most girls go through a phase when they feel like the whole world hates them, your going through that phase. Just hold on for a little while longer, things will get better i promise.

Answer 6

Life isn't always gonna be great. There are times, like now, that I feel like things can't get worse. But trust me; there's so much to live for. You're so young. You shouldn't even be considering this. Not every story ends up with "And they all lived happily ever after". I know this will sound awful, but this isn't the only time you'll feel like letting go. But it's all about learning and fixing things. Don't listen to those dumbasses who say "it's too late. so go for it!". They're shallow and heartless. Listen to us who say "DO NOT DO IT!" because, trust me, things will get better.This moment of hopelessness will pass. And once you realize that your life is amazing, I promise, you will feel so much happier. Don't hurt yourself; when you feel depressed, try writing down your feelings in a journal. Or pick up a hobby; horseback works for me. Horses will always love you. And they listen without interrupting. But if riding isn't your thing, try finding something else you love. You obviously haven't lost everyone; look at all the people, who you don't even know, who are trying to prevent you from doing this. The world can be a cold place, but you'll always find sunshine somewhere. Corny, yes, but it's the truth.

Answer 7

Awh, honey bun. I know it must be sad this time of year with you missing your loved ones. But know that there are people who care about you. I'm one of them because I answered your question. I don't want you to die. You are supposed to have a good prosperous life with family and friends who love you.

Talk to a teacher, counselor, a friend's parents. Someone you trust. They will put you in contact with a counselor or someone who can help you. Don't think you have to go through this alone, because you don't.

Get off your computer and get out of the house. You need to be outside this environment that makes you sad. Walk to the park and ride on the swings. Go to the store and buy some candy. Do something that will make you happy then tell someone about how you're feeling.

Times may be hard now, but you are meant to have a happy fulfilling life! Trust me!! ;-)

Answer 8

i really hope it is not too late. if you ever need some one to talk to jsut email me some time. you should try to find some help. be fore it is to late . i may not know you very well but i dont want anything to happen. i had a friend that felt like this and he got help. and im lgad that he did. we are way closer now. i do not know what i would do with out him if he ever went through with that. i would probably cry for a few days. then be mad and sad at the same time. im real glad that we are so close now though. i hope that yo udont go thru with this.

Answer 9

You never stop losing the people you love. There are people that care about you. If you lost these people due to death, you have to realize it is hard, but a part of life. I have come to a conclusion that death is punishment for the living. You need to stick around and bless someone today. Make your life meaning full, it gets better. I have been in your position before and things work out.

Answer 10

No wait. Dont do it. Taking your own life is never worth the pain that you have. Other people must have things worse than you do, think abt that. Ppl in Africa who starve and sick. They dont even have a life. At least today you can take a ride on the bus, to see the countryside etc. Even if you dont have friends just live by yourself. I know how desperate it can make you feel. But be patient. Let your mind drive your act. Dont let your act drive your mind.