Is it wrong for people to be bi, and how do you kno if you are?
2006-12-13 00:51:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong about being bisexual. I am "straight", in the sense that I do not have sex with men, mainly because hairy bodies repress me and probably because I dislike the male odors. I adore the female body while enjoying when my partner penetrates my anus. I have some kind of obsession with the notion of the transsexual archetype [masculine and feminine altogether] and I desire to get involved sexually with a transsexual person, whenever the chance arises. I don’t know if I fall in the bisexual category and, honestly I don’t care.
2006-12-19 18:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit like drink driving, If you have to ask, then you are.
The whole Bi, gay, straight thing is a recent construct anyway. Past 200 years or so. I'm not sure about being Bi, I just think I am who I am. I like men and women. Sometimes I like men more- Sometimes I like women more... I have gay friends who look down on Bi's and I have straight friends who look down on bi's Both of them for not being able to be true?!?!?! to one or the other.
Me I think that it's what's inside that counts, the rest is just plumbing.
2006-12-21 08:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by garth w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm bi and known it since I was about 14, I just found that I was attracted to males and females. I don't see how it can be wrong, people are all born different. I did spend a while thinking I was gay for fancying women even though I was sleeping with men, so I tried women too et voila I found it just as enjoyable! It is possible to be attracted to both sexes but not feel sexually for them, I have a friend who is straight but likes to fanatasie about women but she doesn't actually like going near them. I think everyones different and whatever you feel you are is what you are and you should be true to yourself :o)
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2006-12-13 09:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by ★♥ KillerBea ♥★ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know I am gonna get bashed for this, but this is something you need to think about. There are a lot of questions concerning this matter and contrary to what most people say just because it "feels good to you" dont make it right. Killing people feels good to serial killers. and no I am not comparing the two. Just saying make sure you think things through before you decide that this is what you are. Perhaps it is only a temptation. and yes I am a Christian and I am in no way trying to bash homosexuals or bisexuals just want you to think about it that's all ;)
2006-12-13 09:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by texasbluezman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know your bi when ur attracted to both men n women. There is nothing wrong with it, im gay myself and i have lots of friends who are both bi n gay.
2006-12-20 05:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Wex Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course theres nothing wrong with it. My friend is bi and she knew because she experimentd and found herself attracted to both sexes.
2006-12-18 17:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by xXx shell xXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is such thing as bi! but your always attracted to one more then the other...bi will never be equal! bi i find mostly comes from somebody that's in denial not always the case tho!!
2006-12-16 11:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think it is wrong. You can't help the way you feel. Sometimes it is about being sexually attracted to both sexes and sometimes you can be strongly emotionally attracted to either sex and get confused . You need to evaluate your feelings and take it from there. Experimenting will help you understand what or indeed who you want. Good Luck
2006-12-13 17:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by misssanta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's wrong to be a bisexual, I once thought that i was bi (I'm gay) I think it really just takes time.
Don't fret on it too much or you'll drive yourself crazy, try to have fun (not necessarily sex) get porn one lesbian, one gay. It took me about 2- 3 years to make sure and accept myself for who i really was.
It is a fact that a lot of straight men had homosexual experience once in their life ( i don't remember the percentage, but i think it was over 50) it's NORMAL.
2006-12-13 09:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Vertigo addict 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not wrong for someone to Bi. As to how do you know, are you attracted to people of both gender?, if so you probably are.
2006-12-13 08:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by helphesaidineedaprofilename 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋