I went out with my friend on saturday night and yet again didnt pull.Ive put this down to the fact that shes a bit of a porker and not very pretty either.So ive told her today that i refuse to be seen with her in public anymore.I mean shes doing nothing for my credibility.I explained my reasons and told her if she gets herself on slimfast for a few months then maybe our friendship could carry on.Anyway she ran off crying like a big blubbering baby.Do you think shes overreacted?
2006-12-13 00:42:05 · 29 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MESELF.....hun anyone with a user name like that is obviously after nothing in life
2006-12-13 00:47:42 · update #1
Hell yes. If that deep fried lard pie loving fat clinically obese B*TCH had any feelings towards you as a friend she should've thanked you for being honest with her and telling her how it is!
She's not sensitive, truth hurts love and what you told her obviosuly hit her on her thighs!!!
2006-12-13 01:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was very rude of you to say that. Why is she your friend anyway? of all people she trusts that you'll accept her no matter how fat she is!
You definitely broke her heart and that is because of your selfishness. I bet you were only forced to be friends with her in the first place. You are the one not sensitive to other's feelings that you only think of what is best for you. You're her friend so you should support her...
If you still don't get it, step into her shoes. You're the fat one and she's the skinny one (Maybe you're thinking, I'm lucky to be this way) and she ditches you the way you did to hedr, what would you feel? I bet you'll run away crying like a baby too!!! You may not realize but she might be only one of the many preson's you've hurt today. Think again. If you're sincere enough, I advice that you appologize to her in person and ask if you can help her with that issue (and yes, I am scolding you) :)
2006-12-13 00:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by aya minamino 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God no I don't think she over reacted thats a really mean thing to say to her its not her fault that shes like that you can't be much of a friend if you said that to her! You could have put it another way sugguesting she loses weight say to her why don't we start going to the gym or sugguested you do her hair and make up before you go out make her feel special!! she might just need someone to help her out!! And the fact is you may have not pulled may have been to no blokes liking you!! And it may not be down to her! People come in different shapes and sizes if we where all the same then the world would be a boring place!
2006-12-13 00:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Purple Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes probably one of those " this is me and im not changing for anyone " people but really they need to change . If someone is doing something thats part of them and its not doing them any good then they need to accept that and eliminate the thing thats screwin g them up . Ie apparently im an arrogant prick i dont just say oh well thats me i change it because its a bad thing
Ok it might of being harsh but if shes fat then she needs to slim down no one wants a fat girl well atleast no one i know does anyways . She could do loads of things to look quite a bit hotter so nah i told my freind hes a wussy and to stop being a whim p with his woman . Maybee she did overreact but ifsomeone tells me something like that i just check to see if its true and then deal with it .
2006-12-13 00:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever stop to think that you might be a dog, and that's why you can't pull. Look in the mirror before you turn to your friends looks to use as an excuse. I know loads of people that go out with big people, and it doesn't stop them from getting dates. She is better off without a b***h like you.
2006-12-13 03:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by evs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she definately overreacted some wot. my mate was good enough to tell me i`m short, smelly, obese, thick as 2 short planks, wasn`t fit to live wiv pigs, had the personality of an std, couldn`t even pay a prostitute a million quid to sleep wiv me and that i`m sooooooooo ugly that my face didn`t just launch a thousand ships it launched a million speedboats too. i`m sooo grateful to him otherwise i just wouldn`t of had a clue. strange i aint seen him for 25 years though! my advice would be to go around to see her and slap her around a bit then put a paper bag on her head and draw a funny face on it. i think she`ll appreciate that. hope that helped nelly :)
2006-12-13 01:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by graham f 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are shallow, it doesn't matter what a person looks like, its who they are and how they treat people that counts. People don't care what your friends look like and if they do, they aren't people who are worth knowing. I think your the one who needs to look at themselves and do some self improvement. I think you never were a friend to this poor girl and that she is now better off with out you anyways. Sorry but your the one with the problem.
2006-12-13 01:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lookin at the stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself, making fun of the afflicted like that. Bargearses can't help shovelling food down their gaping pieholes any more that I can help being ginger. In fact you should have been nicer to your friend after she got hit by that car last week - it turned out that the driver didn't have enough petrol to go around her. Now you go and find your friend and apologise before Greenpeace find her and tow her out to deeper water and let her go.
2006-12-13 02:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, she will benifit from it in the long run. The only other alternative is to wait till the very end of your evening out and try pulling then, when everyone is really drunk! they might not notice your friend is such a pig!
2006-12-13 00:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats what you get for taking a Doris out with you....
she`s only with you to collect the cast offs.
give her a slimfast voucher for crimbo and tell her to contact you in march when she aint such a porker
2006-12-13 00:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by DogmaDeleted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋