This is the quick story......My boyfriend cheated on me with this teenage *****......He has stopped seeing her and we're trying to work things out. I smoke and I go outside (because I have a 9 year old son with cerebral palsy and I don't think he should be around my smoke....), and her friend keeps driving past my house! I don't know if the skank he slept with is in the car or not. But last night she rode past my house 6 times!!!! And she yells sh*t out the window and plays music really loud. I didn't do anything to these people except call the skank a whore.....(cuz that's what she is....) I'm tired of this crap!!! And I think a couple of times they have threw things at my car and house (a water bottle & a big bolt). This is so stupid!!! I'm 29 years old and I really just wanna punch these bitches in the damn face!!! But I have never been in a fight in my life. I just don't know how to get these f-ing teenagers (they are 19) to STOP driving past my house!! I'm tired of this CRAP!!!
2006-12-13 00:41:49 · 15 answers · asked by Kristin K 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
He has asked me what he can do, and that's why I thought I'd ask people who might know. Because I have NO IDEA! I just figured, what can you do? You can't stop someone from DRIVING..... I'm not a mean person but these people are driving me crazy!! I mean, I've never even really YELLED at anyone!
2006-12-13 00:51:57 · update #1
It could be construed as a form of harassment or something. Call your local sheriff's office or police department and discuss it with them....don't call 911...but the only way to really find out what you can do to these little *****'s, is to go straight to the law and ask..... You're a scream.... I like your attitude.... I can tell you are pissed and the way you articulate stuff is hilarious! (I don't mean to sound disrespectful, so please don't take it that way).....I feel for you! Good Luck and God Bless, take care of your son, and I commend you for being a good mom and smoking outside! Although I'd have to dump the boyfriend if I were you.....if he cheated on you once with a skank, chances are he will do it again..... You deserve better....
2006-12-13 00:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by favrd1 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If they keep coming by there really isn't anything that you can do but, if they are throwing things at your car you can write down their plate # and keep a log of how many times they drive by like what time and if they stopped or if they threw something or yelled out any profanity. Once you have that and have actual proof of something either on the ground or on your car then, you can call the police because that is attempting to vandalize your property . The police will make a report and go to the house where the owner of the car resides and let them know to stay away from the address and question them about throwing things at the car. If they admit to throwing things they can be arrested but if they deny it then, you have a police report and if they keep coming by and making threats like they are going to kick your butt or something like that then, you can get a restraining order and if they come within 500 feet of you or your home they will be arrested for breaking the order of stay and go in front of a judge . I bet that would stop it. Good luck and don't worry the cheating little tramp will get hers one day . Karma Baby.
2006-12-13 00:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger and stupid, me and my friends would ride around towns just yelling random stuff at people for fun. One group of people that we apparently yelled at more than once called the cops on us. The cops said that if we kept doing it then it could be considered harassment. So I bet if you report it to police, they will contact these 19 year olds and tell them to cut it out.
2006-12-13 00:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by J B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you sense that this human being is harassing you, stalking you, or in any type threatening you .. then get a shielding order. Video this human being driving by using your living house as well to modern-day to the police if want be. Hugs from a Loving mom to a Brillant, as well as acceptable 8 365 days previous Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to quickly yet who will continuously proceed to be in our heart) ~ Mel
2016-10-18 05:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, it's stalking or harrassment at the least vandalism if they hit your car with anything... playing loud music and yelling out the windows... disturbing the peace. IF nothing else the cops will have a long talk with them, maybe even issue a few citations!
2006-12-13 00:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by geodragonlady1159 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
How frustrating! You MUST call the Police. Explain the situtation, and call the police when they start riding by. Either they will see the police car and stop doing it, or the police will set an unmarked car near your house and catch them. Good luck!
2006-12-13 00:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police with the license plate number. Tell them the situation and tell them she is scaring your son who has cerebral palsy. They should at least talk with the owner of the car. Sounds like stalking to me. Good luck. I hope this teaches your boyfriend to be more careful about the company he chooses.
2006-12-13 00:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes...It is against the law. It's part of the stalking laws. You have to report it to the police and get a restaining order served on the basis that you fear for your son and your safety. I suggest you use a little less harsh language when referring to the other party. That is if you want to be taken seriously and have her arrested.
2006-12-13 00:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by ALL-IN in VEGAS 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's easier for you to get mad at the dumb kid instead of your cheating boyfriend...so ask yourself WHO is the problem here....her or him??? If it truely is her....Just ignore them. You are an adult, she's a kid. Go smoke in the back yard because the only reason they keep pestering you is because it's working! Don't call her, don't acknowledge her. Let her drive past your house and see there is no one paying attention and eventually it'll get old.
2006-12-13 00:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by CH@ cHI 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is harassment. If you have or can borrow a video camera, take video of them driving past your house and especially throwing things at your car. If they cause damage to your vehicle, you can sue for that and the harassment.
2006-12-13 00:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋