i hate my life! what should i do?

Question

i hate my life! my best mate leaves me on my own all the time,
im **** at army cadets, i fail everything at school.
what should i do?
i've thought of running away... or killing myself!!!
i need some advice?

Answer 1

Please don't kill yourself! I've been through having those thoughts, so while I don't know exactly what you're going through, I know a bit about what it's like to feel hopeless and want to end it all. If you want someone to talk to, email me! You've got nothing to lose. I'd be happy to take some time to write to you, just so you have a friend to talk to. :)

Answer 2

There are always periods when some1 hates the life she/he has. It doesnt have to be something who knows what, or anything connected to you ... sometimes its just a period, backed with a reason or not. You say your mate leaves you all the time ... hmm maybe he is busy with something, or even if he is trying to avoid you in any way, just grab him and ask him why is he doing this, if he respects you as a person he shouldnt care. Ask him for help once, twice, three times ... but if you see that he isnt responding well, then just you avoid him too ... best friends remain best till the end, and nothing should break em apart.

Every1 thought about killing themselfs atleast once per a life time ... that is same as giving up. You need to find whatever you like, love and enjoy doing so you could find salvation in your work, hobby, sport it doesnt matter. Dont do stupid mistakes in your life ... becuse either way, life is a short period, so my golden rule should bring some sense in you - just live it the to max, and definately school isnt gonna make you a better person, you are the one that needs to deside what way you want your life to flow, cuz you dont have to do anything in life, apsolutely anything except to die, and since that is coming, why not just live the life - go parties, get a bf, hang more often, go to movies, play video games, learn when you feel like it ... there are so many things to do to improve your life, and cutting your wrist isnt one of them. Just dont drop into depression all the time, when you feel that you are droping, go out and have some fun ... hope i made some difference :)

Answer 3

Deep breath!!

Life always seems to suck at some point- esp when you're a teenager.

Try hanging out with other people if your best friend keeps leaving you- make your friends circle as big as possible so you can always give someone a call. The key to this is to always keep in touch with people- even if its a weekly text just to say hi, it means that if you were to call and say "wanna do something", its not so weird....

If you are rubbish at cadets, why are you there? If its just to keep other people happy, leave. It's not essential yo your life.

And if youre having trouble at school (assuming you ARE applying yourself!!) then talk to a teacher and ask for help! This is crucial in lessons as well. The more questions you ask as you go along, the better you'll understand. NEVER be embarrassed to ask a question- its a key tool in learning!

Mostly, find something that makes you happy: going to gigs, going to the gym, going to the cinema. There are ALWAYS clubs or groups that revolve around activities. Hell, even if its just reading- as long as its something FOR you.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Don't kill yourself mate. or run away.. trust me it's the wrong thing to do. Running away is like running away from something you can't handle... it's stupid, FACE YOUR FEARS GIRL! Killing yourself won't solve anything either... DON'T BE AN EMO!

Sounds to me like your best friend isn't really a friend at all. Find a new one. Proof them wrong by moving on and not looking back!

I expect that you're quite good at army cadets... so keep going... like i said before, prrof them all wrong and go for it. it's your life and you need to live it up!

I'll tell you what, relax when you have a moment and tell yourself what you like about yourself and what good things you've done and, above all, how to improve yourself. you can only get better when you truly know what's wrong.

Love ya mate... cheer up and smile! xxx

Answer 5

Frst of all leave the army cadets that sucks man. Then find something that interests you and join an association/club that does that kind of thing. Gradually you will make new friends and your life will improve. If somethings not right change it remember no matter what people tell you are in charge of your own life no one else.

Answer 6

Don't take last option. Life always is in flux. When your in the dark... you can find new doors open and life changes for the better.

Only losers take their lives. Make changes for the positive. If your friend is not appreciating your friendship.. try and make new friends.

Life can seem overwhelming and tough at times - but the other side of the coin is life can be fantastic and exciting and thrilling. You can get through this to better times ahead.

Answer 7

Killing yourself should never be an option. Stats show that a large number of people who have attempted suicide change their mind during the process of suicide.

Nothing is impossible. You need to take a step back and look at your life objectively. Is anything so terribly permanent, that being dead permanently would be a better alternative?

Consider the lives of those who are less fortunate then you and you may be able to count your blessings.

Consider transfering to a different school in a different part of the country or even, the world. All you need is the courage to initiate change, and then embrace it.

Consider the story of one of my best friends: She had a degree in fashion design. At 24, her fiance dumped her after her parents divorced. She moved halfway across the world to start over. She arrived in Tennesse without knowing one word of English. In 3 years, she lived in five different cities, had 2 miscarriages, was in a tumultous brief marriage, spent a night in jail for physical assault, suffered depression and was suicidal, enrolled herself in a university at 29, her older sister (who she hadn't seen for 5 years) drowned in a swimming pool, travelled to europe with her brother, gotten an internship with a famous fincancial company, will graduate next June with an MBA, with a 50grand/year paying job in wait. Her only dream: to make enough money to buy a home, so that her mother can live with her.

One thing I learned from her: Its OK to feel down, and be in that black hole of despair. We need it, so that when things are looking up, we can feel alive. But if we never try to feel alive, we will never know.

A good movie to watch when feeling down: Little Miss Sunshine (coming out on DVD December 19)....a good *pick-me-up* movie for people who *hate their life*.

Answer 8

Get a big box of chocy Biskeies, sit down and make a nice cuppa tea. Have a good old cry and call an old Irish Grannie up. Tell her all Your troubles Luv, then let it go and start Your new life, just as You'd have it be; and sod the freaking past; it's from now on that You live. Good luck little One, it's all up to You now!

Answer 9

Don't give in. Not everybody can be good at everything.
Try not to rely on your friend so much for support if they are not willing to listen. Adopt a positive outlook on your life. Wake up each morning and have positive thoughts about your day ahead. Tell yourself you are strong and that you can deal with whateve life throws at you.

Finally, look at others who are in a much worse situation than you are and try to be positive about what you have now.

Answer 10

When I feel like this, I remember the sage advice from Billy Joel

You may be right
I may be crazy
It just may be a lunatic you're looking for.

Though it doesn't directly address my problem, I do get a laugh out of the fact that this song sucked so bad and yet he still sold a ton of albums.