So do all married guys lust after women other than their own wives?

Answer 1

I define lust as an involuntary emotional reaction to sexually arousing stimuli. So, yes. However, in an ideal world, this fact would contain no more emotional weight than the answer to the question, "Does every person get hungry when they haven't eaten in awhile?" Well, yes, but so what? Being hungry doesn't force me, for example, to eat food that isn't good for me; I can still eat a healthy meal rather than an entire chocolate cake. In a similar manner, the fact that I feel lust for women other than my wife is not as important as the fact that I can still choose to remain sexually faithful to my wife. Lust is irrelevant. What is important is behavior.

Answer 2

I've been married for 5 years and with my wife since we were both 14. I can appreciate other women being beautiful or pretty, but to lust after them? No. I am sure a lot of married men may wish they were with others but I would say that not all are that way.

Answer 3

I recently met a married guy & he told me he loved me. When I reminded that he had a wife, he told me that sometimes" a man needs to be with a woman he's not used to". Kinda lame but I guess its true. Men also say that a new woman is like a "novel in bed". There you have it, men will always lust over women other than their wives.

Answer 4

no not all guy just the cheater and it works both ways there is a lot of married women out there that lust after married guy to

Answer 5

I don't know that all men LUST after every woman they see...but MOST men will look at other women. Just because you get married does NOT mean you go blind. I look at other guys and even comment on their a** or the way they walk or their eyes. Every guy I know looks at other women and most comment. As long as I treat my guy right, I am not worried about it at all because I know who he comes home to every night.

Answer 6

the point isn't the lusting. the point is we can no longer administration ourselves so we are no longer ok for God. So Jesus got here to be the acceptable Sacrifice for our sins so we will be kept from our sins. Even after excepting Jesus we can do sinful acts, yet when we are lower than the Blood of Jesus we can proceed to be kept and nevertheless have a relationship with God. we do no longer have sex till we are married out of appreciate for Jesus and doing the right element. Jesus reported He would provide a way out, so keep you pants on or get married.

Answer 7

Attractive women dont vanish the day you get married or have a gf.

The attraction is always there. Lusting after them suggests a little more than thinking 'Hey, shes pretty'. And most men will think that.

No, most men are happy to have a wife and keeping her.

Answer 8

I have been married for 8 years, and my husband does, however he would never thinking of acting on his thoughts.. I figure the look but don't touch, he tells me some of his thoughts which drives me crazy at times but at least he is trying to be open with me

I think it is normal for guys to do that that is my opinion anyway

Answer 9

no but remember woman in the human species are the only mammals that have breasts full time, all other species only get breasts when child bearing,,,, so We as men must be supposed to look at other woman,, and we dont necessarily lust after a woman, just because we look,

Answer 10

No. My guy never looks at other women that way. My Son doesn't do it either. Some guys are never satisfied with what they have. Everyone looks to up-grade. It's someting in the individual.