they mght think your trying to split them up because your jealous but your trying to a good friend and think they're really no good for your friend. what to do?
2006-12-13 00:31:54 · 20 answers · asked by arvernai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would let my friend know. I would be careful how you present it though, You dont want to lose a friend.
2006-12-13 00:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I told my very best friend that I didn't like her boyfriend. She understood and I tried to stay away whenever he was around. It took over 3 years for her to realize that he was wrong for her but eventually she saw the same things that I saw. My advice to you would be that if you are truly friends then she will listen and not get upset, you only need to say it once and when she comes to you with a problem never say I told you so, just listen because eventually she will find out for herself.
2006-12-13 00:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 00:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by klitzner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on ur reasons 4 disliking them i mean if its a personal thing 4 u then it shouldnt matter 2 their relationship as long as he/she loves that person theres nuttin u can do but if u kno that person is wrong 4 them an u kno they have a bad history then speak up but make sure its within the 1st few times of meetin them then the jealousy factor wont rise
2006-12-13 01:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mike . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, in my opinion, you should tell them you don't like their partner but because that's your friend, you'll respect the relationship he or she is in and be happy for him or her anyway. That's what friends do. You can tell him/her over and over how "no good" this person may be. Sometimes it takes them to find out themselves how this person is and if jealousy is the first thing that you friend thinks you are, then that's not your friend in the first place....good luck.
Be Blessed..
2006-12-13 00:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's their boy/girlfriend why would they care what you think. You are not in the relationship with them. And the odds are they will just be mad at you and not understand why you don't like them. So I'd say be nice and keep quite.
2006-12-13 00:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If I felt strongly that my friend was dating someone who was not good for them, I'd talk to them about it but not just go on a tirade about how lousy their partner is...I'd say "this thing" or "that thing" troubles me about their behavior or attitude and I think my friend should at least consider it as a red flag...
Nobody wants others trying to tell them what to do, who to date or befriend so after stating your case, let it go...your friend will do as s/he desires...just be there for support, if/when things fall apart with the boy/girlfriend...
2006-12-13 00:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In some case its good coz you maybe trying to help your friend but you should try to this insuch a manner that your friend will not think that you are trying to take away his or her partner pliz,thank you.
2006-12-13 00:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your thoughts and feelings to yourself. It is not a matter of your choice and your feelings really do not count in this situation. If he/she breaks their heart or hurts their feelings, just be a good friend and be there to listen. Keep your thoughts to yourself. God bless****
2006-12-13 00:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if I didn't like a friends signifcant other I would say so, but that doesn't mean I would expect my friend to end their relationship. As a friend I would tolerate her choice of "mate" because of the frienship.
2006-12-13 00:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he dont hurt u or try to break ur friendship apart, dont bother. I mean what are you going to accomplish. She will still be with him and you will still be her friend. I say move on its not worth it, it just creates more tension.
2006-12-13 00:47:01 · answer #11 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋