2006-12-13 00:20:25 · 17 answers · asked by yemisi y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing to be confused about. You unfortunately came into contact with a manipulative, lying, cheater who undoubtedly seems charming and likeable. On the outside, he may be fun to be with, but if you look into the heart of someone who is willing to cheat on his wife, manipulate you, and take the feelings of everyone who cares about him for granted, your confusion will go away. See him for what he is and all will be clear to you.
2006-12-13 00:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he waited for 4 months to tell you he was married he is a player
there could be a couple of reason why he decide to wait to tell you.#1 he wanted to get to know you first and see how thing would work out in the relationship there one thing you have to under stand about men and yes I'm a man any man that would get in valve in a relationship while still married and still living with his wife are $ss hole this is not right for any man to do this because it hurt the other person a lot.know what i would do if i were you i would stop seeing this person right away he really should of being honest with you in the first first place know he is hurting you and using you for a door mat and dont let him do this to you.
2006-12-13 00:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as he said the words - I am married - I would have told him to hit the road. He's having an affair, where's the confusion. If he'll cheat on his wife, he'll cheat on you. He is a selfish person that only cares about self gratification. As soon as he's bored, he'll move on to the next woman. You only invested 3-4 months with him, leave now before you waste anymore of you life on this loser.
2006-12-13 00:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know hes married so what are you going to do about it ?
i can see no confusion here this guy has no intenion of doing anything about this, but you must,his wife has no say in any of this she thinks she has her husband to herself so carrys on sleeping with him ,having sex with him, kissing him. she doesnt know he has just left your bed, you may have only just had sex with him and he goes home and has sex with her, he might be doing the same thing with you for all you know.
tell him to keep away from you until he has finished with his wife and mean it everyone deserves more than this, the blokes a real pig.
2006-12-13 00:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by P J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to be confused about? He's married, that sort of ends your relationship with this man. IF you've had sex with him you've basically allowed this man to use you for a fling, that he obviously didn't enjoy otherwise he wouldn't have told you he was married. If you choose to be used or not is up to you.
2006-12-13 00:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the doctor. There are tests that need to be done. I dont understand why you havent gone to the doctor. You dont need your mothers permission. She cant just take your baby because she wants too. It doesnt work that way. Im sure she wants you to have a healthy baby, so get into the doctor!
2016-05-23 17:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4th month, day 2 - get out! How could you be confused in this situation? He just wants you for sex and that's it. He is using you as his play thing. Please, just get out of this relationship. You deserve so much more!
2006-12-13 02:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by country girl 006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me when i found out my feelings were in it but i let it go.it was not and is not right no matter what he says there are two sides to every story let his lying self go if he lied about that what else is he lyning about
i dont get it why wont they be honest and let us make the choice to do wrong or right.
2006-12-13 09:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know what you coud be confused about, he has a wife plainn and simple. You need to stop seeing him and move on.
2006-12-13 00:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused about what? He's a cheater and a liar. Dump him!!
2006-12-13 00:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by rauldp38 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋