I need ideas for getting a present for my lady friend who is 35 and i am a male 21. Her mothers cancer came back and shes been crying to me on the phone all week. I'll spend between 100 - 300 on her. I have to meet her at 2:30pm today. Please don't say flowers or spa's or jewery cause i'm fed up. No Ideas please help me
2006-12-13 00:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How about a little trip somewhere just the two of you, just to take her mind of things. Tell her your just going as friends Im sure she will love it! <3
2006-12-13 00:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the best present you can give is just love care and attention it's the little things that makes us feel good, hold a door open for her, pull a chair out for her, tell her how gorgeous she is inside and out, be there for her when she crying, you don't have to say anything just listen and put your arm around her and comfort her, tell her to try and not to worry and get upset, it's not good for her health either, just cause her mums got cancer does not mean she is going to die, it just means she has got a fight on her hands and she will need her daughter to be strong for her to help her through the fight. Your lady friend needs to pull herself together and treat it as a battle. not the end, and get focused and start to think more positive, and tell her mother they both gonna get through this, they not gonna let it beat them. determination and positivity are a good combination to fight these things. Good Luck and God bless hope it all works out x
2006-12-13 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh I think u are truly sweet. I am totally hopeless when it comes to gifts.what I would like if i was in the same position is surety that u will stick around & support through the process.let her know that she can count on you. get her something small & something that will instantly remind her of you, your love & support.buy her a charm bracelet or a chain something she can wear everyday, everywhere.
Hope it helps!!
2006-12-13 00:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be too late but you can get those 'red letter' packs for different activities hows about a Hot Air Balloon ride?
and also you sound lovely, i'm sure she's just greatful for your friendship x
2006-12-13 05:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about a day at a health spa for both of you so she can relax and not think about anything for a few hours.
otherwise just give her your friendship and a shoulder to cry on.
priceless.
2006-12-16 23:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by cheekkkychik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about something simple like paying for a day out with her and her mom or a pampering weekend away for them both!!
That is a wonderful thought! or maybe take the three of you out shopping for a few christmas shopping and lunch over the weekend
2006-12-13 00:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a donation to the American Cancer Society in her mother's name.
2006-12-13 00:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt matter what you get her,she will love it.
She is one lucky lady to have someone like you looking after her.
Have a lovely Xmas,the pair of you.
2006-12-13 01:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoes.
2006-12-13 00:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a couple of decent photo frames and a voucher to get old photo"s of her and her mother revieved!!
2006-12-13 00:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋