Married people answer my question please, jokes apart... i'm damn serious about this question..
2006-12-12 23:44:01 · 13 answers · asked by Savior! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not if you find the right person! Take your time.
2006-12-12 23:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take one a different kind of happiness! You do lose your freedom since you have to take your partner into consideration in 99% of everything you do or say. Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt therefore you each need you own space weekly to satisfy your personal desires (and I am not talking about sex). Then when children come into play you lose more freedom and take on a different kind of happiness in raising your children which I might add is very time consuming, (And I don't mean that as a negative either) So you be the judge as to how you feel now and what you like to do, go, see, think, talk, walk etc etc etc and ask yourself are you willing to give that up in order to have another person or persons to share your life with. Good Luck I don't regret getting married but I sure do enjoy Divorce with grown children and 2 lovely grandchildren.(I spoil them rotten and send them home) lol....
2006-12-13 07:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by flashrtp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 32 years and we have been together for 37, yes we did fight and argue in the early days and it took a long time to sort out all the differences, but we are now the happiest we have ever been.
It is a shame that a lot of marriages do not work out.
You do, to a certain extent, lose freedom but you replace it with the ability to share all your time with someone you love.
2006-12-13 08:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married 5 years, have three daughters, a ton of bills and no privacy. Wouldn't change a thing. I'm happy and content.
Let me quote a Neil Diamond song, "I'm not a man that likes to swear but I never cared for the sound of being alone".
Some of us are supposed to be fathers, some of us are not. Go with your heart. Whatever you decide is OK!!!
2006-12-13 09:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Clrinsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get married for the sake of being married I believe you wouldn't be happy long. I got marrried because it was convenient and cheaper, also for the company. We were happy most of the time for 7 years.
2006-12-13 08:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents. They sacrificed themselves for you to be happy. They worked hard to provide you food, clothing and shelter and sometimes you get angry at them for not providing more. Marriage is a way you give back to your parents what they have given to you. It is your turn to sacrifice yourself for the sake of your wife and children. If you feel you are not prepared to share your life with your wife and soon to be children, then continue with your bachelor life.
2006-12-13 10:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here to tell you it doesn't. I'm a gay married Canadian who's in a twenty year marriage that keeps getting better. Go for it!
2006-12-13 11:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you marry a person you really enjoy talking with. Someone who is fun & makes you laugh. Also someone with whom you agree on most points. If it's solely based on sex, that's when you have problems later on.
2006-12-13 08:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you marry the right person, no. It will enhance your life and give your life a new meaning.
2006-12-13 08:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am happier now being married than I was single
2006-12-13 09:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by papabear098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋