He's not very good at taking hints, even not making eye contact or keep on reading doesn't work.
2006-12-12 22:50:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take out a contract!
2006-12-12 22:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be you need to be straight with him. Just simply tell him that you are not interested and you would appreciate it if you and he did not speak any more and tell him why. Men are not much different then women in that way they would like to know why just like we would so be honest with him and the headache will go away. After all honesty is the best policy even if it hurts. Although we can be honest in nice ways and I hope you take that approach just be clear and do not send mixed messages. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-12 22:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think the obvious would come to mind and that would be to tell him.You have tried to drop hints and drop hints but some people are relentless and persist ant but if their presistance is perturbing you then you have no choice but to lay it all out.Be kind,not hurtful but be direct,to the point and absolutely clear on what it is you want him to do and why.Everybody needs an explanation.If you pussyfoot around then you yourself are playing games and do like the attention he gives you then who is to blame really-I hope you see and understand the point I am trying to make.Good Luck..peace...Riz>...Honesty is the best policy...
2006-12-12 23:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him maybe you keep making eye contact or giving hints he will think you are playing hard to get and keep doing it.
2006-12-12 22:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Louis K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just say it straight! It will be scary at first but once you do it you'll feel so much better. Same thing with asking for a raise, quitting your job, breaking up with someone, etc. Some things just need to be said point-blank.
2006-12-12 22:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say
"Look Kn*b J*ckey ive tried to be nice and polite... but you really dont take a hint do ya... heres some miseltoe ... now p*ss off and bother someone else"
Job Done... harsh but he will take the hint!!!!
2006-12-12 23:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at him, an say I dont want to talk to you, give him a reason and ask him to leave you alone. That works. Dont come off as rude though.
2006-12-12 22:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by jaffarkelshac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them straight and say you are only going to say it once. If they talk to you again, just ignore them - as long as you've got your point across they should be able to work it out! Good luck.
2006-12-12 22:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it to him straight.. 'Look, I dont want to talk to you any more & we cannot be friends. I have my own life to lead & it doesn't have any place for you.'
That should do the trick.. it's not being rude, just hones. If he asks why you are being that blunt, just tell him its because he never took your hints.
2006-12-12 22:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a can of gasoline and when he approaches you, pour a ring around yourself and light it. If that doesn't work...pour the rest of the gasoline on his car and light it. Then he will only want to talk to you via his lawyer.
2006-12-12 22:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by DrMikeonCall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋