im 27 female b friend 42 very jelous possesive asked 2 go 2 my local welfare club 10 mins away laast week and now he is away 2 belfast with 25 work mates all wearing kilts.we r in scotland and he is now not answering my calls and says we r finished coz he don trust me as i confronted him about if he had slept with women whilst working away from home.he got his back up and was angry with me coz i accused him,i dont think it is fair he can do what he wants but i have 2 ask?
2006-12-12 22:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by cazi26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have heard that Scot males are a breed in themselves
I was looking at your past questions and it appears you have not been happy in your relationship for awhile ... You need to do what your heart is telling you dear...If you can't just walk away because of commitments then consider starting the trail .. find out just where you can get help .. and start making those arrangements....
I do wish you all the best .. let me know how you get on
2006-12-12 22:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't have "ASK to go out" When you want to socialize or have a little "girl time" you discuss with your partner if the two of you have any plans or responsibilities for that time. If there are none, there should be no problem. If your partner is afraid of your behavior when you are not together, then you must address that. Have you been inappropriate in the past? Has he been inappropriate? If either one of you have, then there is a price to pay.
Take a honest look at yourself and your relationships, past and present. What do you want out of life? Where do you want to put your energy? Sometimes, you must walk away from "high maintenance" relationships. You only have one life to live, so don't waste it. Read some books. Dr. Phil has wrote some very good self-help books and I strongly recommend studying them.
Focus on developing your skills. Solutions to problems take time and a lot of energy, so evaluate if the relationship is really worth it.
Good luck. And remember "If it's to be, it's up to ME".
(I have been married since I have been 18 which is 35 years ago. No relationship is without problems and we have worked through many of them.)
2006-12-12 23:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off you know the answers to the unanswered question. Why bother asking---the anger he displayed is his guilt speaking to you that he did exactly what you think he did.
You are not married to him-----You have no contract with him. Sooooooooo you don't owe him an explanation to anything as well as he doesn't owe you answers either.
At 27 you old enough to know what goes on in the clubs where the men all wear kilts-----That's why they don't wear anything under them.
If your 42 yr old jealous man says it's over then let it be over. There are more fish in the sea than this mid-life crising man in a kilt!
2006-12-12 23:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really 27? And you write like that? Maybe he's left you because you have a mental age of 10.
2006-12-12 22:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by cockarseballs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask for a solution to your question.. Its obvious to everyone that all you have to do is Just have nothing else to do with the miscreant and go out have fun and do what you please.
2006-12-13 22:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that your single...go out and party with the girlie's...don't worry about him, he's not thinking about you while he's hoo-harring it up in his kilt...so just go and have a blast...relax and let your hair down...he'll be back once he realises that he's made a mistake...
2006-12-12 22:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋