am i being too suspicious of my husband ????

Question

some female keeps calling up my husband on the mobile. she used to chat up earlier but noe she only gives blank calls and blank smss. i feel suspicious of my husband too. although he told me of her calling up and he refuses to take her calls, but is that only in front of me? why has she suddenly started giving blank calls? why dosent he just scream and put the phone down? is he enjoying the attention? sometimes he also deletes her smss and phone calls. i can see them when i snoop on his phone when he has no time 2 delete them. he does not talk about her anymore 2 me. what to do??

Answer 1

Fugghetaboudit !!!

Answer 2

You said you check his phone do you ever check to see how long he chats with her if he does? If he told you about her calling him then he has made a confession to you and he has also said he does not want to talk to her. When he use to talk to you about her was it in a good way? If so then it would seem something might have happened and now he is trying to get rid of her or it could be his way of just getting rid of her without telling her he wants nothing to do with her. The real question is if nothing ever happened between them how did she get his number? Just a suggestion but if you get the chance call her from his cell phone and see what she says don't say a word just see what she says. You need to know for sure or you will never rest. Your instinct is telling you something and we need to follow our instincts, they are usually right. Trust is a big part of a relationship and it would see that the trust is not there right now so the only way to mend it is find out. There is also a button on the phone to check erased calls and maybe you should do that or check the cell bill to see how often they have conversations or it they even do. Either way you and him need to have a conversation on this and tell him how you are feeling, if he loves you he will tell you but if he is afraid of losing you he won't. It may have been a one time thing and now he wants it to end and she won't leave him alone. Find out what is going on the sooner the better. All the best to you.

Answer 3

Well, let me tell ya a story. Your husband is probably cheating on you. Sure she leaves blank messages.......could be a signal to call or an answer to a question he has asked her. Don't forget about the phone cards.....yeah, they use them too so you can't track the calls on the phone. I would not trust him as far as I could throw him. Been there and done that. Just took me too long to figure that out. Now I don't give a shi% what he does or when he does it.........EVER hear of freebird?????

Answer 4

just take a new sim card start sending blank sms and blank calls to ur husband when he is not in front of u plz be kool act as a other women infact i can say that flirt with him, some men avoid very harshly but some politely so wait and watch what is going to happen

Answer 5

I would definitely be suspicious if I were you.

I would looked at the detailed call report when it comes, unless it goes through his business.

If necessary, hire a private detective for a couple of weeks.

Don't just forget about it, because it is just too suspicious.

I mean, how did she get his phone number in the first place? He had to have given it to her.

Good luck!

Answer 6

even if he is having an affair, it is not necessarily the death knell to your marriage. If he is having an affair, then you may need to make the decision to stay or leave the marriage based upon a variety of factors. Some of them might be your religious beliefs, your feelings toward your husband, the effect of divorce upon your children and many other issues, information about which I do not have. I don't believe that this particular scenario should be your immediate concern

Answer 7

I would say from experience that he is either cheating on you or has done in the past and she won't accept that it's over. That's what happened with my husband and the woman he cheated with. I would suggest you ring her on his phone so she is aware you know. She will probably not tell you anything but she will get the message !! Trust me !! Tell him your intentions to see his reaction, then you will know for sure how he feels about her. Then do what we did and change his number. Unless ofcourse he is still cheating and wants it to continue, then l suggest you give him his marching orders !! Good luck with it all.

Answer 8

I think you should approach him ask him why is he still getting these calls or sms's. Tell him you will not accept this and ask him for the number so you can send her an sms your self or call her ask her what is she playing at. If they don't stop then i think he is enjoying it or he may be involved with her. Keep your eyes and ears open. You have every right to know why he is receiving these sms's.

Answer 9

YOU talk with HER ... get it out in the open just who you are and where she stands ... after hearing what she has to say you might just give HIM to her minus a tasty alimony check and any child support if you have little ones ...

He doesnt want to talk to you about it ..could it be because he is hoping it will go away ?? some men can be like that you know

Answer 10

Sounds like he either had a fling and is trying to ignore her now, or that this person is really bothering him. I would answer his phone for now on. He shouldn't object if he has nothing to hide. Then maybe the person on the other side will either tell you what is going on or will stop calling.

Answer 11

Live with a cheating bastard for the rest of your life or kick him to the curb where he belongs and where he can take all the time he needs to receive his phone calls and messages from his bit of fluff on the side. Your choice.