My friend ignores me all the time and when I ask her something she pretends not to hear me and I knew it. And when my grades are better than her, she treats me soooooo badly! One day I couldn't stand her any more and I just yelled at her "bit ch!" I am very very upset! She told our Chinese teacher I said she is a bit~ch and then our Chinese teacher told every teacher how rude I am and now no one likes me. I told other teachers my stiuation but no one believed me.And I am soooooooo mad and she is so happy now. I am so mad that I couldn't sleep and couldn't eat. what should I do? please? soooooooooo mad and sad!!!!!
2006-12-12 21:57:54 · 10 answers · asked by Little red riding hood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Calling her names wasn't the best idea but this girl isn't your friend. It sounds like she got close to you only to hurt you. Girls have a big issue with that and it is usually really hard to prove this type of bullying. All I can say is be extra good in all of your classes for the rest of the marking period and then talk to a councilor. Girls, as mentioned earlier, bully in secret. On the outside, and to all the teachers, it looks like the two are good friends, but secretly, one girl will start with small things when the teachers aren't around to hurt another girl. They start with things like telling you what to do and telling your other friends all these nasty things about you until it escalates to all of them snubbing you. Teachers won't believe a word of what you say because they never see it. It can hurt soooo much but the best thing you can do is make new friends and move away from this girl. Don't talk to her and ignore anything she says. It will hurt when she does things to sabotage your reputation but if you ignore her and find new true friends you won't have to worry because a true friend will defend you. Make new friends and see what happens.
2006-12-12 22:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by JEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...... for u to call her friend after all that she must of been a good friend at some point. in my oppinion i think she's jelous. she has deffinitly gone over board. u need to find a place where u can relax thats away from things that can distract u. think about what is going on and just calm down. some things u cant change all u can do is learn to relax and wait it out if she ignores u then just ignore what she's doing to u.just dont let her know it bothers u. this world is full of ppl like her heck most the ppl at my old school were.u cant let it ruin ur life and u cant sink to her level if u do ur no better then her. u have one life dont let little things like her tell u how to live it. i can almost garentee if u let ppl treat u like that, u wont have a good life.
2006-12-13 07:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by lilkitten_tabby_kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a drama queen. I seriously doubt that every teacher at your school is even wasting a moment's thought on whether or not you called someone else a b****. Trust me, they have more important things to think about.
On the other hand, your so-called friend is not acting like a friend at all. If she was your friend, she would congratulate you on doing well in school, not engage in petty jealousy and ignoring you. Find some more mature friends.
2006-12-13 06:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, gather your other friends and wait for her at a corner or when she's alone and...strike!!!!!
kidding.
Well obviousLy, drop her! She's way out of the category of the word friends. But life is always like that. There are and will always be bi+chs in this world. And since your still in school... you'll encounter alot.
Just leave her period. Dont bother on sulking, believe me, she's not worth it.
2006-12-13 06:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend treats you this way? You need to forget about her and make new friends, work on your studies and let everyone see what a nice person you are. Your teachers surely know you enough to know you're not a rude person so just forget about her and ignore her. She's a pathetic, immature little child.
2006-12-13 06:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that she isn't a real and true friend... friends don't ignore and hurt each other so badly. Maybe she is just jealous of u coz u are better than her... or maybe for some other reasons... what kind of friend is she anyway... when she rejoices when u are in a maddened or tight state...? Go find some other friends who will accept u for who u r and understands you...
2006-12-13 06:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by "fIrE_stAr" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a real friend coz no friend would do that. Get on with your life and pretend she doesn't exist. One day it will come to pass and everyone will see that she is the one who is rude.
2006-12-13 08:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by sweetme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a true friend. Just get up and move on with her,,, make new friends, try to re explain to the teachers. you no yadayada ydada stuff
2006-12-13 06:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another friend.
this one is not even a real friend.
a real friend will not do
anything to hurt you.
2006-12-13 06:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her *** b/c shes a bit*h
2006-12-13 06:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by cade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋