even when it is so very hard to, even when others have majorly influenced you, tried to manipulate you, when for example what you did is too painful for you to even admit to yourself that you did etc etc... when responsibility is too scary and you would rather follow someone elses advice/manipulations/shouting at you than your own insticts bcz you are afraid of yourself/them or have someone to blame if it goes wrong??
I currently gone thru a bad situation which id rather not talk about, but although i "lost", hurt someone quite badly i dont want to lose the lesson or how to approach a similar situation in the future.. ie i want to learn from my mistakes... so any thoughts???
2006-12-12 21:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds like you all ready are. And for you to even write this down show some compassion also that your not an idiot so screw what "they" say to do if it was worth it they would do it them self. You obviously know the differance between right and wrong so before you act bad twords someone ask yourself how you would feel in there place cause trust me it does come back around
2006-12-12 21:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by Leash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By thinking before acting. Not allowing yourself to be manipulated into doing something you know is going to hurt yourself and another person. You say you want to learn from your mistakes. Is it really a mistake knowing the outcome of an action? Owning up to your mistake is to admit you were wrong and ask for the forgiveness of others.
2006-12-13 05:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you have taken the hardest step of all, writing this question, well done on that score, It's so easy to follow the advice of well meaning friends but in the end it has to be your decision, I was talked into selling my house because of the vandals, but Iloved that house, it was the worst mistake I ever made, but it was my decision at the end of the day , everyone is responsible for their own lives and achievements.
2006-12-13 06:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could always try, and its good to be responsible, But it is almost impossible to take action for all your mistakes. so sorry i don't think we can.
2006-12-13 05:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋