2006-12-12 21:19:00 · 22 answers · asked by Justine T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The closest one that cares.
2006-12-12 21:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever finds a friend finds a treasure! Get a friend to listen as you unload your grief! who can that be? Your mom,your dad your family(not your brother LOL). Whatever is making you feel low pour your heart out,cry if you must,create a river if you have to but let it go.
Now the plus with your parents is whatever the problem is will remain a secret coz your shame will also be their shame. Now if you confide to a friend there is a good chance that your problem can be worst coz in my experience,these friends,will also seek the advice of other friends thus exposing your problem to the whole world-then you'll feel down again LOL.
2006-12-12 21:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest a really trustworthy and loyal friend or family member...or perhaps even a siginificant other. Make sure you do approach this special person/s and express to them how you are feeling, don't keep it to yourself...it's not good for your health. It's a thing I need to do more but I find it difficult, I know it's hard but try, you will feel much better for it.
Take care
2006-12-13 08:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by nicky_bronx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a network of friends and you should use them all when you are feeling low, you should also include your family. if you are not feeling your best they will all want to help you. I know i would feel sad if a close mate of mine said "I have haed a really hard time the last few weeks" and they hadn't asked for help.
2006-12-13 02:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't cry to anyone, I cry to myself & then b*tch to everyone else about my problems which seems to work well. If you cry people tend to get stuck for something to say but if you get the crying out of the way 1st & then just moan about it minus the tears you'll find people are more responsive!
2006-12-12 21:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by C Greene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on ur a grown up.by crying u will make ur self a fool and no body will respect u.anaylze what is wrong and try to make changes yurself or with others help.
self help is best help.people just listen and then make fun of u.
2006-12-12 21:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by mans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mum always sorts me out or my little boy sad i no i have to rely on a 5 year old to make me feel better
nothing better than a hug from someone u love
2006-12-12 23:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by bexieboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoever you can trust the most, are closest to and whos opinion you value and respect and who will be there to cheer u up if needs be too.. do the same for others and then you will have plenty of ppl to lean on..
2006-12-12 21:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever i feel low i talk 2 my friend becky cos i find it easy cos we hardly get 2 see each other & i can just talk 2 her on msn or i talk 2 j who is my sweet boy ive never met him but we talk all the time on msn or i talk 2 dan a boy at college
talk 2 someone who u trust & who won't judge u or tell u wat 2 do this is why whenever i feel low i just talk 2 these people on msn cos i find it easier 2 but this is just me
2006-12-12 21:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by little miss sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend, family member, workmate? If not I have big shoulders.
2006-12-12 21:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋