I went to the casino Now I want to leave home!I can't face him,This is the 1st time i've done this , Where can I get help? I'm so embarrased it's Christmas and i'm O U T.
2006-12-12 20:51:15 · 19 answers · asked by lorraine B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to join Gamblers Anon and own up to your problem. The problem is not the gambling it is an insecurity within yourself, the gambling is just your way of denying yourself any chance of confronting that which you are running from.
If you do not seek help, you will be running for the rest of your life. You need to seek your spiritual side, or your ego side will continue to let you and the ones you love down, time and time again.
If you do not go within....you will go without.
I would advice seeking a spiritual councillor, healer and take up a course in self development before continuing any further on the course you are going on. The road to self destruction awaits those whom identify themselves with accumulation. Find out who 'you' really are and make only choices that serve you for your highest good. That is a choice you and only you can make.
love, light & blessings be yours,
Harriett Potty ;)
2006-12-12 20:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by harriettpotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now be brave and face the consequences! Do you have children? You are left with no choice but tell him. If he kills you-good for you-you deserve it. But I know,and I would, forgive you providing that you have learned your lesson well or have you?
And how much are we talikng bout here? Is it enough for you to be bankrupt? Then help him pay your next bills and mortgages. Find a good job. Prostitute yourself coz you just did. But face the consequences there is no use running away. Like you said "it's Christmas!" If I were your husband i'll pierce a star on your head then we are even LOL
2006-12-13 05:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes, its only when you dont learn from them that there is a problem. You were irresponsible and you violated his faith and trust in you. If he is a loving and forgiving man, you will have a lean Christmas, but this too shall pass and you will laugh about it in years to come. Dont be surprised if he takes all access to money away from you. Face him and fess up, its the only hope you have for determining if you married a man or a miserly creep. In either case, once its behind you, you wont have to face it again.
2006-12-13 06:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little kid..
What the hell were you thinking.. why did you do that?
You need to grow up, take your responsibility as a healthy minded wife..
Go home and tell him the truth and learn from your mistake..
2006-12-13 06:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid taking risks n feel sorry abt what u hav dne!...
Ask him 2 forgive u first time n tell him that u will nt repeat this mistake in future!
2006-12-13 04:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face your husband. He may be angry but he is your husband and you say it is your first time. You made a mistake and you are truly sorry for making that mistake.
2006-12-13 04:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tennile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.
Francis Bacon said, when we lie, we are afraid of people, but not of God.
Explain, he will understand. Also try not to go for gambling, which is considered to be tempting and harmful.
2006-12-13 04:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by sorwar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress too much. Be honest with him, promise him it will never happen again and mean it !! Don't be embarrassed. We all make mistakes, he will be mad but if he loves you he will forgive you this time !! Better make it a real cheap xmas this year. ......Have a good one...and good luck with hubby !!!
2006-12-13 06:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he'll forgive you and you need to go to gamblers anonymous get help seek a free counselor...get family support.
2006-12-13 05:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you - I would start seeking alternative housing arrangements as you won't be living there soon.
2006-12-13 06:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋