My boyfriend said, - i love you,? and I was so excited and so freaked out that I didn't say
anything back. We met on http://www.blackcentury.com and we both think love is color blind. I'm white and he is black man. He looked like he wanted to die with embarrassment, but I just couldn't say it. He's been avoiding me, now. What should I do? If you also belive 'love is color blind', this site would be fit for you:)
I'm waiting for your help. Hurry! We have a candle supper this weekend.
2006-12-12 20:41:16 · 7 answers · asked by Coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Man.. why are you so ****** up about this?
Grow up. Hurry? We have a candle supper this weekend?
You know what? You have a serious mental problem.
Grow the **** up.
Why are you hung up on b/w?
Candle supper... what a joke.
2006-12-12 20:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where in life does it say that just because someone tells you something that you have to reciprocate and say something back? Also if youre panicing over this then this tells me youre either too young or possibly immature to be in a relationship. What did you think happens in relationships? True, it may be a little too early in this relationship for him to say that and you may not have that kind of feeling yet, nothing wrong with that. Tell him those words when you truly feel that way and are ready to tell him that. Dont let this guy or any guy force you into anything you arent ready for. Just take your time and be sure. Also color has absolutely nothing to do with this. As a father of two adult women, trust no man and always beware of wolves in sheep clothing. Good luck
2006-12-12 21:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coco, one sweetie, you need to calm down. The way you are typing your question I can read the panic between your lines. Second, how long have you been dating and do you find it to be a serious relationship? If you find this relationship to be serious and you find it valuable and important then why is it so hard for you to say I love you? You need ask yourself what this relationship means to you and go from there. That is the best advice I can give you. I can't tell you to say you love him because if you don't mean it then he will be able to tell. Men, might seem to come of as being tough and hard as nails but they want the same things we do, someone to love.
2006-12-12 20:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tennile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a suitable place/venue and set the right mood.Sof and all i.e the way you dress.hold his hand and look him in the eye.Then tell him how you feel about him .You can opt to use the 3 words or many more words that mean the same. Then hug him after all that. You will fel relieved afterwards.
2006-12-12 20:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you were not comfortable with having to say it. Maybe not ready!
That is not a bad thing.
I think it only should be expressed when you're serious about the person and want to marry them... n
2006-12-12 20:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this just scream 'spam' to me? Maybe because it reads like utter b.s. and you've posted this five times in the last hour?
2006-12-12 20:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by halitobro 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Dump him.
2006-12-12 20:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋