Me and my fiance' have been trying to have a baby for the last 8 months. We have sex every month the entire week after my monthly cycle but no results yet. What are we doing wrong? Its so stressfull.
2006-12-12 20:33:41 · 25 answers · asked by wantnababy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
have it all through the month except when you are having periods. keep your legs raised while he puts it in and don't get up at least ten minutes after he has ejaculated inside.
2006-12-12 20:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by eel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usual ovulation is about 11 days after the first day of your period, or at least that is the day to start trying. Have your fiance switch to boxers if he wears briefs, that keeps his "little men" from dieing off from being too hot. Try to have sex before you go to sleep, that way you don't have to stand up and you can lay down for a few hours so the sperm have a better chance. Instead of having sex multiple times a day or all through the month, save the sperm for ovulation days that way there will be more of them. If you have sex multiple times a day, the amounts of sperm will be smaller. Trust me, I tried for 3 (almost 4) years. You can also try the ovulation tests, but those never worked well for me. If all else fails, just go get checked out by a doctor, both of you.
2006-12-13 04:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Hayley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Husband and I are also trying for our first baby, and the best advice we got, which our doctor approved of, was to
(1)Relax...stress helps nothing...turn on some romantic/in the mood music....go out to your favorite place to eat....enjoy it, and each other....
(2)go to the bathroom before sex, that way you don't get rid of his sperm that could have possibly made it...
(3)prop a pillow under your lower back, and lie still for about 10-20 minutes....this can also give you two a chance to cuddle...;)
(4)if you are really set on trying, try every other day, so his sperm count has time to rebuild in count, and won't be so low...and if it's not to taboo for the two of you, try diffrent places in your house, and new things....
Good luck....and I hope this helped...
2006-12-13 08:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first week or say, 10 days after cycle is called safe period, u have less chances of pregnancy in this period.
U have to have sex in the middle of cycle, around 14th day, countind start of bleeding as day 1.
If u don't concieve afrer trying this for few months, then u both should go to medical tests
1. Semen examination of male, If it is ok, then
2.Hystero salpingo gram of female, to know the patency of fallopian tubes, If this is also ok, then
Forget about pregnancy go on enjoing sex, IT WILL COME ITSELF !!
2006-12-14 09:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by gurkanji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The peak time is two weeks after your cycle begins. Also, you could try getting one of those peak ovulation test kits offered over the counter at drug stores. If that doesn't work. Go to a doctor. Its possible that your fiancee has a low sperm count or there is something else going on.
2006-12-13 04:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Linnea L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Have sex after fixed interval ie 30-35 hrs so that male sperms gets rejuvenated.
2.Do it between the period of after two days when your period ends and two days before ur period starts.
3.use a posture in which u all at bottom and use a pellow ur butt..
4.remain in that posture for some time and relax insted of going to bath room so that sperm gets time to met ur eegs..
5.see a doctor...if all this fails ...
wish u a good luck..!!
2006-12-13 07:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by roony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have alot of sex sex sex sex alot that what they tell me. I don't now .I keep trying sex sex sex. If you are stress out that my be part of it. Someone said to have sex 3 times a week and make it very spicy.The more you temp goes up is more best to get pregnant.I Hope I was helpful to you and yours.
2006-12-13 04:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by chain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I know its hard to do, but try to avoid any stress, thats a big factor... also, try raising your hips during sex, and remain still 10-20 minutes after... good luck!
2006-12-13 04:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may need to be more specific with your sex. You might want to go to your doctor and find out exactly when it is your supposed to be ovulating, invest in a thermometer and then get busy everytime your temp drops/rises (whatever)
Good luck.
2006-12-13 04:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Banting B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get pregnant,i think u should have to do sex 12 to14 days after ur period cycle.it is d only time when d egg ovulation is done.i want to give u a advise that u should have to ask ur Doctor to know there is any problem to get pregnant ,in ur uterus or not.
2006-12-13 04:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by mani7z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋