my gf of three years broke up with me about two months ago.She said she was unhappy because we never did anything fun, we work differnet shifts soo its hard sometimes.I still love her and want to work things out with her and fix the problem that started this mess. THe problem is she said that she broke up with me permanently.But why is she still calling me everyday and leaving voicemail on my cell phone if she broke up permanently with me?.I didn't call for one day and she called twice about nothing, we ended up talking for 45mins.I asked her if she was seeing somebody and she said a friend asked her out, but she refused to go out with him.I asked her why and she said it didn't feel right, I asked her if it had something to do with me and she said maybe.Iam so confused, maybe she needs some space or maybe she regrets breaking up. I don't know anymore. We talk almost everyday and she is the one that calls the most.Can anybody help.
2006-12-12 20:22:02 · 11 answers · asked by j3ffw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love her so much and theres nothing i wouldn't do to get her back.Is there hope for the relationship even though it has been two months going on three months since the break up.what do i need to do to get her back.
2006-12-12 20:49:04 · update #1
well she called again and left a voicemail, she said"hey just want to let you know this is your last call, tab is sick and iam really tired bye".Well i called and asked her how tabitha was doing, she said her stomach is bothering her.She also said that she may need me to pick her up on saturday, and i told her i would think about it.She doesn't have a car since her accident and her brother takes her to work.That was not all, she also told me about somethings that happened at work and pretty much small talk.I think iam going to give her some space and not return any of her calls for a week.Maybe things will change....
2006-12-13 22:45:54 · update #2
She may still have feelings for you, or she may just still be used to you and want someone else, but still have you too. I probably didn't help any, but I've been the girl in this kind of situation and I didn't know what I wanted and I'm guessing your ex doesn't know what she wants either.
2006-12-12 20:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by kayle_rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got a simple solution for you. Here's a fact man, girls WANT what they can't have. So don't instantly cry to her and tell her how much you missed her and how much you love her. You need to play it cool you need to let her know that you don't NEED or RELY on her. Don't push her away or be rude just go along with everything and don't just compliment her on everything. Obviously she cares for you, she said maybe it had something to do w/ u that she rejected the other guy? Are you kidding me if your still confused your lost in the jungle! Like I said if you tell her off the bat you miss her and you love her she'll know she can have you so she got you on the hook. Kinda play hard to get, trust me, it works! Don't act "needy" as if you "need" her total turn off. Tell her you have been doing fine and living your life. She'll get really jealous and into you. Good luck!
2006-12-13 05:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dispirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has feelings for you that run deep, but she doesn't know what she's doing with her self/her life.
She needs to sort herself out. If you do see her again, try to keep a little bit of distance so you don't get hurt too badly. I have been on both sides of something like this - I have gained knowledge - but the cost is pain. How do you feel about her? If you truly care for her, it might be worth the risk.
Calling you everyday means that she hasn't been able to let you go - she obviously still loves you.
2006-12-13 04:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to quit playing games; either she wants to be with you or she doesn't. She's keeping you on a string b/c she knows you didn't want her break up with you and she CAN keep you on a string. Stop calling her and find other things to do so when she calls you are not home. She will probably have a tough time with that...why be mean? Because she's playing with you.
2006-12-13 04:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by ashley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you back. Period. Don't make a move or act interested. Let her come to you and spell it out for you.
2006-12-13 04:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Meeeeee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your g/f still can't get use to the breakup, if i were you i would leave things for a while before she could really make up her mind. gd luck
2006-12-13 04:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet her and tell her that you still love her. Perhaps she is waiting to hear that from you.
2006-12-13 05:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still has feelings for you? If you want her back then just talk to her.
2006-12-13 04:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...dont waste your time talking to your ex gf or thinking of her...it her lose that she dumb you for once and now she looking for you ...please that not worth of your time with that ex gf....honestly ex never work out it better if you move on with a new gf that can be better than your ex gf...i never went back or talk to my ex it a waste of time...
2006-12-13 04:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you because now she can't have you
2006-12-13 04:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Julian J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋